my bf is generally a very calm person, nothing upsets him, he's the chillest person i know.
however, technology not working, and especially losing at video games makes him irrationally angry! he throws the mouse, punches the wall, etc. sometimes he scares me with the sudden noises, and our cat as well. he's like a completely different person then. it's been an issue in our relationship for years, so much so that a year ago he actually intentionally broke his laptop and threw it away to show me he's sorry for this behaviour (which i also think is crazy lol), then proceeded to get a crappy replacement from his grandpa which barely works, and now he gets even angrier because it doesn't work properly! in a desperate attempt to make this better, i agreed to contribute to a good new laptop this black friday but now i'm regretting that because i doubt it will help.
i just really don't know what to do! usually he's fine in like 5 min and then he's very apologetic but it makes me really anxious and on edge whenever he's around the laptop. i feel like i'm going around in circles and like it will never stop
anyone had an experience like this? any tips?
however, technology not working, and especially losing at video games makes him irrationally angry! he throws the mouse, punches the wall, etc. sometimes he scares me with the sudden noises, and our cat as well. he's like a completely different person then. it's been an issue in our relationship for years, so much so that a year ago he actually intentionally broke his laptop and threw it away to show me he's sorry for this behaviour (which i also think is crazy lol), then proceeded to get a crappy replacement from his grandpa which barely works, and now he gets even angrier because it doesn't work properly! in a desperate attempt to make this better, i agreed to contribute to a good new laptop this black friday but now i'm regretting that because i doubt it will help.
i just really don't know what to do! usually he's fine in like 5 min and then he's very apologetic but it makes me really anxious and on edge whenever he's around the laptop. i feel like i'm going around in circles and like it will never stop
anyone had an experience like this? any tips?