Also if she is still struggling so much about the miscarriage she should get some professional grief therapy. She uses it as an opportunity to dine out on. It is really awful what happened but she was extremely, extremely early on in her pregnancy. I think she is quite an unhappy person who should invest her “well above average” salary into a therapist.
Miscarriage never leaves you though. Every milestone such as the anniversary of the due date, or the anniversary of your loss, you think about that baby and how old it might have been and what you might have been doing had it worked out.
It really doesn’t make any difference how early you were in your pregnancy because from the moment you see a positive test, you imagine a whole life with that baby.
I don’t think it’s something you ever truly get over, even with therapy. I don’t blame her for finding it hard to work through particularly on specific dates. I’ll bash her for a lot, but I appreciate her sharing when she’s feeling down about it, lots of people feel they can’t talk about it and have to struggle through and that’s not how it should be.