Definitely against the rules, he is not a public figure nor makes money from Instagram/his followers.not sure if it‘s against the rules (ignore if it is) can somebody link Ash/her boyfriends insta please?
Definitely against the rules, he is not a public figure nor makes money from Instagram/his followers.not sure if it‘s against the rules (ignore if it is) can somebody link Ash/her boyfriends insta please?
Deffo boyfriend, he has deleted pics of them together off his Instagram.
It‘s not like they were together for such a long time as well. Sure you’d be sad if getting dumped, but not in such an overdramatic manner.She really does seem to be affected by her relationship status in a very absolutionist way. It's natural to be energized by a new and good relationship, and to be saddened by it ending. But she just goes in eiter direction completely. Being in love wouldn't solve my mental health, nor would a break up be able to ruin every ounce of stability in my life. Its really striking in her example, how little plan B there seems to be.
And her art is ... Something
I think she's also seeing his PT. Awks.That is also what is baffling me, the whole we are disposable artwork, like they'd been together years.
I wonder if she will keep up the gym/PT sessions now they've broken up? As she totally molded and took on that part of his interests.
I thought this was awkward too but then thought maybe I’m reaching??I think she's also seeing his PT. Awks.
I hope to God she never has kids.I can't imagine her ever being a parent and sacrificing her time and wellbeing for the sake of a little one. She's already utterly miserable all the time and doesn't know how to help herself.
You are spot on there, being in a relationship isn’t just about a partner for Beckie - it provides her with a whole life.I wonder if somebody died and the boyfriend dumped her? Even for Beckie that ghost drawing can’t just be about a breakup.
I feel for her though. It’s clear it’s not just the relationship for her… it’s the whole idea of this ‘on track’ future she had planned. Talking about kids again for example. I think losing the fantasy of their future is where the pain is, and that’s pretty understandable, even normal tbh. I can really relate to that element of a breakup. But with Beckie it’s so extreme because her identity is so empty, built on the intense feeling of failure. So the relationship becomes everything / a beacon of hope. It’s very sad but obviously she won’t learn from it. Obviously it’ll just built into her identity as a failure and not motivate change.
The boyfriend also provided friends and family connections she doesn’t otherwise have. Plus her new hobbies.
I’m blocked so pls update w Instagram news if things change
I'd wondered this. But if it were a close family member dying as well as a break up, I just cannot fathom that she'd still be posting Stories of her and her cat etc. Who knows.I wonder if somebody died and the boyfriend dumped her? Even for Beckie that ghost drawing can’t just be about a breakup.
Nail on the head - they've not been together long and she's spending all her time posting instagrams about how her biological clock is running out (which it's not - she's 29!) - I'd run a mile tbhIt wouldn't surprise me if a reason why the boyfriend called time on the relationship was at least in part due to her being too full-on too quickly. It had only been a few months and she was already mentally planning babies and the whole "happy ever after".