Absolutely, especially those of us who have worked in the field. There is so much left unsaid in their videos, which only leads to more speculation. They explain everything away. My thoughts are that when Val became pregnant as a teenager, it’s was a big deal to her supposed highly educated, perfect family and then the child is not “perfect”. They jumped all over the fact that she might be a genius. Jessica being unsuccessful at almost everything she tried is hard for them to accept, so they blame it on others. Divorce was another failure for Val. Her failed life - except for her nursing degree, oh you have heard she’s a REGISTERED NURSE-is made better by all those delusional people telling her how wonderful a mother and person she is. Now they are left with having to show more and more of Jessica exhibiting behavior that is so crude and actually, quite gross. They want this perfect life but they don’t want to put in the hard work.