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Just thinking about how Marlowe must feel after them taking Agustina to Disney? Every trip she’s left back to watch the dogs. Well this time Bad Daddy could of done that and allowed Marlowe to join the girls trip to Disney. Or maybe Marlowe feels them being away is her vacation. Marlowe does so much for that family it’s like a slap in the face. Here everybody rolls out the red carpet for Agustina when your greatest treasure Marlowe is right there. I would love to see Marlowe give them notice and leave there selfish cult. I can see already Agustina is growing tired of Jessica’s antics. It’s one thing to FaceTime someone but to live and breathe it changes all the cuteness. I think I heard where she was going to stay at Val’s sister and Val’s dads. I am sure she’ll need to get away from all the crazy. That’s the part that’s weird is why is she so close to all the family? I can see as a Crispy her chatting with Val & Hannah but all the family ??? No way there’s something else going on with Agustina. I say she’s Hannah’s girlfriend. Which hopefully that will get her out under Val and Jessica. Or maybe they’ll all become Jessica caretakers get paid by the Medicaid waiver and YouTube Crispies. It makes you wonder what our world is coming to ?? We have so many causes in need and people spend money on this !!! ☹
There was a comment on a post from yesterday where Val said Baddad was watching the dogs.

I wonder if Marlow can't go because of Momma Joe?
 
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I thought it was ‘vital’ for Jessica to have an afternoon nap every day in order for her to function properly? At least, that’s what Val has often stated in the past, although it seems from the latest video that that doesn’t apply at Disney, despite the heat and long days! Once again the narrative has changed to suit. She’s even controlling whether the others rest or not! Unbelievable. 🤷‍♀️
There was a comment on a post from yesterday where Val said Baddad was watching the dogs.

I wonder if Marlow can't go because of Momma Joe?
Campbell is going away with Madison. He was only watching the dogs a day or so. According to Val. I'd really love to hear what Madison thinks of the the way Jessica gets her own way all the time
Didnt Val say they argued a lot growing up.
 
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I’m baffled, just baffled at the comments people make about the videos. How can watching her eat a cookie be so beautiful and precious to them? I am just baffled.
 
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I’m baffled, just baffled at the comments people make about the videos. How can watching her eat a cookie be so beautiful and precious to them? I am just baffled.
It’s actually disgusting the way she eats the enormous bites she chews with her mouth open making horrible smacking noises like a cow. With amount of food she puts in her mouth at once she couldn’t close her mouth even if she was made to chew with her mouth closed. Val made a huge deal cause it took her 5 minutes to eat that enormous cookie. Look at the size of it. I couldn’t have eaten the whole thing at once not at all. Val and Hannah were sharing one cause they were so big but Jessica is a little brat and can’t share so she ate her own.
 
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I can’t with these Disney videos so much wrong and so much just unbelievable. What is wrong with these people nothing about Jess’s behavior is cute or adorable. Honestly just really really sad! First I don’t care what arrangements were made Marlow should be there not Augustina bottom line! Are you kidding they have to push her everywhere and now she has to sit there with an umbrella are you kidding right now? Poor baby might get too much sun it’s called a hat and sunblock. She is constantly stuffing her face I don’t know where this fear of not having enough and don’t give me 20 years ago at a school! This family has more excuses than the entire autistic community! So because Jess wants to go until midnight no one else has a say cause the poor thing will start to have anxiety. Val really does deserve this for the rest of her life this is all of her doing and anyone else staying on that crazy train is wasting their lives! To crispies this is Jess’s world and you all are just living there. Rant over

Also I would love to say I have an 18 year old autistic son who is kind polite respectful and caring towards other people. I would be so mortified if his behavior was like this
 
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I can’t with these Disney videos so much wrong and so much just unbelievable. What is wrong with these people nothing about Jess’s behavior is cute or adorable. Honestly just really really sad! First I don’t care what arrangements were made Marlow should be there not Augustina bottom line! Are you kidding they have to push her everywhere and now she has to sit there with an umbrella are you kidding right now? Poor baby might get too much sun it’s called a hat and sunblock. She is constantly stuffing her face I don’t know where this fear of not having enough and don’t give me 20 years ago at a school! This family has more excuses than the entire autistic community! So because Jess wants to go until midnight no one else has a say cause the poor thing will start to have anxiety. Val really does deserve this for the rest of her life this is all of her doing and anyone else staying on that crazy train is wasting their lives! To crispies this is Jess’s world and you all are just living there. Rant over
I agree with everything you have said. Its unbelievable the way they are terrified of upsetting her or saying the wrong thing. What a terrible way to live your life pandering to Jess every single day. The big bites is shocking yet val allows it. Shocking.
 
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Val is the one who can’t forget 20 years ago in regard to the food anxieties. Jess can’t remember what day it is much less 20 years ago. Val keeps it alive through her unspoken actions. Take some advice from the Frozen soundtrack and Let it Go”.
 
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I can’t with these Disney videos so much wrong and so much just unbelievable. What is wrong with these people nothing about Jess’s behavior is cute or adorable. Honestly just really really sad! First I don’t care what arrangements were made Marlow should be there not Augustina bottom line! Are you kidding they have to push her everywhere and now she has to sit there with an umbrella are you kidding right now? Poor baby might get too much sun it’s called a hat and sunblock. She is constantly stuffing her face I don’t know where this fear of not having enough and don’t give me 20 years ago at a school! This family has more excuses than the entire autistic community! So because Jess wants to go until midnight no one else has a say cause the poor thing will start to have anxiety. Val really does deserve this for the rest of her life this is all of her doing and anyone else staying on that crazy train is wasting their lives! To crispies this is Jess’s world and you all are just living there. Rant over

Also I would love to say I have an 18 year old autistic son who is kind polite respectful and caring towards other people. I would be so mortified if his behavior was like this
Agree 100%! I can’t stand how they make excuses for Jess - having special needs is no excuse whatsoever for her behaviour. She has clearly not been taught as a child because, if she had, things like sharing and manners would be second nature now as an adult. Like you, I would be mortified if my autistic daughter behaved like she does! Yet all these people commenting on how amazing she is, blah blah - can they not see what we see? Some of them respond very nastily to even the slightest hint of criticism, even if a genuine question has been asked. It’s ridiculous! 😝
 
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Val is the one who can’t forget 20 years ago in regard to the food anxieties. Jess can’t remember what day it is much less 20 years ago. Val keeps it alive through her unspoken actions. Take some advice from the Frozen soundtrack and Let it Go”.
Exactly! I’m a foster carer with many years’ experience of dealing with children with various issues, including food-related ones, and I understand that withholding food from a child can have serious consequences. I fostered one little boy whose parents would throw scraps of food on to the floor occasionally, to be fought over by him, his siblings and the family dogs. When he first came to us, he would throw the food on his plate on to the floor and make snarling noises as he ate it really quickly, presumably imitating the dogs. He would cram his mouth full and would most definitely not share a single crumb! We could not take him out to eat as he was literally like a wild animal when it came to food. He would also constantly check the food cupboards and would hide food in his room and other places, including his shoes. With careful handling and reassurance that he need not fear going hungry in our home, this behaviour slowly changed and eventually stopped - and it did not take 20 years! He is now the most generous, polite, respectful young man who is relaxed around food, shares willingly without even being asked or reminded to do so, and we can take him anywhere to eat and not be asked to leave the restaurant (that happened several times when we were trying to teach him in the early days)! I should also add that a couple of years after he joined our family, he was diagnosed with Autism, ADHD, Tourettes, PTSD (due to years of every form of abuse at the hands of his birth parents and family), and severe learning disabilities. If he can learn to behave in a civilised manner and to control his food issues, Jess certainly can - she just needs to be taught and for her family not to make excuses for her greed and rudeness. 🤨
 
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Has anyone else heard of “inspiration porn”? It’s the concept whereby someone does something to boost an individual with special circumstances to feel better about themselves. I think of this whenever I read responses to their posts. Next to the definition in the dictionary, should be a picture of Jess.
 
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I should clarify…. It makes the person commenting or giving feel better about themselves. Like thankfully I’m not as bad off as you and I’m doing this great thing for you.
 
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Exactly! I’m a foster carer with many years’ experience of dealing with children with various issues, including food-related ones, and I understand that withholding food from a child can have serious consequences. I fostered one little boy whose parents would throw scraps of food on to the floor occasionally, to be fought over by him, his siblings and the family dogs. When he first came to us, he would throw the food on his plate on to the floor and make snarling noises as he ate it really quickly, presumably imitating the dogs. He would cram his mouth full and would most definitely not share a single crumb! We could not take him out to eat as he was literally like a wild animal when it came to food. He would also constantly check the food cupboards and would hide food in his room and other places, including his shoes. With careful handling and reassurance that he need not fear going hungry in our home, this behaviour slowly changed and eventually stopped - and it did not take 20 years! He is now the most generous, polite, respectful young man who is relaxed around food, shares willingly without even being asked or reminded to do so, and we can take him anywhere to eat and not be asked to leave the restaurant (that happened several times when we were trying to teach him in the early days)! I should also add that a couple of years after he joined our family, he was diagnosed with Autism, ADHD, Tourettes, PTSD (due to years of every form of abuse at the hands of his birth parents and family), and severe learning disabilities. If he can learn to behave in a civilised manner and to control his food issues, Jess certainly can - she just needs to be taught and for her family not to make excuses for her greed and rudeness. 🤨
Also every time Jessica is at Disney she starts with stupid baby talk everything is “mommy, mommy” and then she proceeds to talk like she’s 5. I think that’s one of her many ways of manipulating Val into doing whatever she wants. Val has raised a greedy spoiled brat. From what I see Hannah may be greedy but she doesn’t act like a spoiled brat when she doesn’t get her way with something and good for Madison getting as far away as possible from that freak show. He had the right idea.
 
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Has anyone else heard of “inspiration porn”? It’s the concept whereby someone does something to boost an individual with special circumstances to feel better about themselves. I think of this whenever I read responses to their posts. Next to the definition in the dictionary, should be a picture of Jess.
Thank you for sharing this. I had never heard of it. It makes perfect sense. I don't read comments anymore. they are so bizarre. Lately I have found Jess very unlikable and she is a spoiled brat.
Don't get me started on her gross eating and chewing habits.
 
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I truly think us on here are the only ones that believes Val is a greedy manipulator. And Jessica is a spoiled greedy nasty woman. Having autism or disabilities is no excuse for her behaviour. The many followers just cant see what we can.i find it disturbing. And Hannah is going to be left with Jessica when anything happens to Val and Campbell. No way will Madison want her with him and his wife. And I dont blame him.
 
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This trip looks like a lot of work, which would be just more work for Marlowe - I bet she's enjoying her down time while they're all out of town!
 
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I truly think us on here are the only ones that believes Val is a greedy manipulator. And Jessica is a spoiled greedy nasty woman. Having autism or disabilities is no excuse for her behaviour. The many followers just cant see what we can.i find it disturbing. And Hannah is going to be left with Jessica when anything happens to Val and Campbell. No way will Madison want her with him and his wife. And I dont blame him.
I think there are a lot of people that feel like we do but haven't made it over here yet. I remember before I came here and started catching on to Greedy Thurs I thought I was the only one. The really brainwashed cult will never see it but there is a lot that do.
 
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I don't understand why so many fans/viewers view Jessica in such an idealized way. To them, she is the most special, wonderful, pure, best person in the world. It makes me wonder whether some of these fans/viewers have Borderline Personality Disorder and that's why they view Jessica through this all or nothing prism. It's like they see Jessica as a female Jesus or something.

A few of my martial arts classmates are disabled. Yes, they are given accommodations and sometimes taught in a different way. But other than that they are treated just like everyone else. Nobody is constantly telling them how special, wonderful and perfect they are. They are treated like regular people because they are regular people and are not gods or goddesses.
 
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I will bring up a subject from the past. Some of you had mentioned that it's possible Val has an issue with drinking. It came out loud and clear in the Mother's Day lunch with Nonnie. Take note that Val had 2 beer mugs in front of her. Did she order a beer, and when it was half full she ordered another. Drinking is a serious disease. It's one of those things that they all know, but what can they say. It's the elephant in the room.
Between possible drinking problem and all the eating out (fried foods) she getting fuller. It's very sad.....she's soooo in denial.
 
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I believe if her videos were shown to 100 people, 99 would be appalled by her behavior. Actually, rather than educating people, they are setting progress back years. Behavior modification should be the goal, not letting the person do whatever they want. The behavior only creates chaos for all those involved and society as a whole.
 
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