Audrey Leighton Rogers (Frassyaudrey)

[WeLoveTea]

I used to love love love this woman, and I love how she articulates her discussions on certain topics online… but lately, I’m not sure - I’m getting irritated by how much she complains about, well, pretty much everything
I know some of it is done in jest, but I think what is getting to me is she’s moved to Paris which she has moaned about wanting to do for YEARS, and now she’s here she’s just.. forever complaining?
I appreciate she’s running a business from a foreign country, and I appreciate her honesty rants online, but sometimes I just think, give it a rest.
She makes out she is the busiest person on earth; I don’t think she realises how many people would kill to be in her position. I get the feeling she’s from a rich family too, so she’s clearly had some leg up to start off with and annoyed she not making as much money as she’s probably used to..?

 

[Screenshotspls]

She's insufferable! All she does is whine and constantly push her own opinions about inane things based on her own self importance.
Delusions of grandeur

 

[WeLoveTea]

She's insufferable! All she does is whine and constantly push her own opinions about inane things based on her own self importance.
Delusions of grandeur

Moaning about having no money and not being rich, but splurging on her apartment furnishings and expensive food
Sharing the story that her dad retired at 40 speaks volumes. She’s Clearly from money but hates that she isn’t in the same position by herself.

 

[Sherpy]

Oh my God yes to all of this! I unfollowed her about 4 or 5 years ago because she was just the most insufferably negative person. Constantly complaining. And God forbid anyone suggest the silver lining of a situation to her and she'd start ranting about toxic positivity, etc.

All that aside, I am kind of surprised to hear she's still that way now that shes living in Paris which was always her goal. That should have changed her attitude for the better.

It's mad how she can't see the irony of constantly harping on about "making her life beautiful", when she's incapable of seeing the good in anything. She's clearly allergic to optimism or any form of effort when it comes to her own happiness. Not sure if it's an attitude problem or something more serious that requires a prescription for anti depressants. Either way, I wish she'd do something about it.

Is she still single? I remember this being one of her frequent subjects of complaint

 

[WeLoveTea]

Oh my God yes to all of this! I unfollowed her about 4 or 5 years ago because she was just the most insufferably negative person. Constantly complaining. And God forbid anyone suggest the silver lining of a situation to her and she'd start ranting about toxic positivity, etc.

All that aside, I am kind of surprised to hear she's still that way now that shes living in Paris which was always her goal. That should have changed her attitude for the better.

It's mad how she can't see the irony of constantly harping on about "making her life beautiful", when she's incapable of seeing the good in anything. She's clearly allergic to optimism or any form of effort when it comes to her own happiness. Not sure if it's an attitude problem or something more serious that requires a prescription for anti depressants. Either way, I wish she'd do something about it.

Is she still single? I remember this being one of her frequent subjects of complaint

She’s single still and screenshotting her WhatsApp chats with men and moaning about how terrible all men are is still 80% of her personality at this point. That, and complaining about how her beautiful clever friends are still single, and how dismal Paris weather is, how hard it is to run her business, how she is using her savings constantly and claiming to be almost bankrupt but then will go out and buy such expensive food, furniture and constantly book holidays…?
I think she’s getting more and more deluded the older she is getting and moaning because she isn’t a millionaire yet.

wouldn’t we all love to be millionaires

 

[WeLoveTea]

“Very often” but last week complained about how her business was about to go bankrupt?

 

[baxter2021]

I used to really like her but just find her constant moaning annoying. We get it, running a business is hard but she’s obviously in a fairly privileged position if she can still afford clothes, nights out, holidays, apartment in Paris etc.

 

[WeLoveTea]

I don’t dispute her garments are beaut and it’s so difficult when you’re up against the likes of shein. But she’s not truly struggling, she should just keep it real. Sounds like she plays on the struggle card to try to sell more. Would love to see how much she has in savings because she’s always referencing using from it…

 

[ughplease]

Omg I’ve been away from tattle for ages, someone finally made a thread on her. I was surprised she didn’t have one. She was talked about fairly often on gomi back in the day i think.

I used to love her and was inspired by her brand and her general focus and discipline in life but I muted everything a few months ago. I think she was actually having a full on breakdown, like worse complaining than ever before. Unhinged long negative rants and really mean judgemental posts (more than usual…) all over her stories. Screen shots of her dad calling her out and telling her to grow up, which i also wanted to say but she would never tolerate anyone else saying to her.

Amongst her negativity is the audacity to constantly complain about her brand struggling but ALSO complaining about how nobody sees her social media posts anymore. But she absolutely refuses to update her content or style to actually be in line with what’s currently working on social media.

I know it’s stressful but if you want a successful brand that relies a lot on social media to make sales, these ridiculous overly staged and posed photoshoots (sorry i used to like them 5 years ago when this kind of content was more relevant) are just not it. Fine for the website and here and there on social, but more organic feeling, relevant content is a must. It can still feel totally luxurious and beautiful, just more with the times. She kind of reminds me of Freddy My Love with being just weirdly out of touch and stuck in the olden days of influencer style content when the world has moved on.

You are not entitled to people’s time and attention on social media just because you have a brand or put in lots of effort. If your content isn’t being seen it’s because your audience are preferring other types of content and it’s your responsibility to know what that is and figure out what to create to compete. You also aren’t entitled to a successful business. But she seems like a very entitled person in general.

Do not get me started about her complaints about men. She’s in her mid or late 30s now right? At what point do you realise the common denominator is you? Not to mention almost on a daily basis body shaming Parisian men?! Taking photos of people in public often to make fun of them and what they’re wearing or how they’re too thin and not all superior and muscular like her. I think she puts so much effort into curating this beautiful world because she’s an otherwise quite arrogant, judgemental, and rude person with a huge superiority complex. I always wanted to buy from her brand but after a while I became so glad I hadn’t, she ruined it for me.

Sorry this is long! I’ve had that on my chest for like a year haha. It bums me out to realise because I really liked so much of what she has tried to build but I just think she’s too old to act like this, it reminds me of how I was when I was 20 and it’s too cringe.

 

[Sherpy]

Omg I’ve been away from tattle for ages, someone finally made a thread on her. I was surprised she didn’t ha....

Oh my God does she still do those really detailed moody shoots? I stopped following her years ago, I couldn't stick the constant negativity and complaining.

Do you remember when she constantly posted digs at a brand that copied the same style of photo she created, the photo where she stuck a baguette in a bag and hung it on a doorknob? I completely understand it's frustrating to have your work copied but her reaction was OTT, she just couldn't let it go.

To put it politely, I'd say she's quite difficult for a man to be with. I just get the impression she'd harshly judge a guy if he's not successful in life, but yet she'd probably bitterly resent him too if he was more successful than her. She's impossible to make happy because she seems to have committed herself to living the 'tortured artist' image.

Do you mind me asking what was the context of her dad calling her out and telling her to grow up?

I can't believe she bodyshames guys by posting their pics. That's so cruel, especially as they havent chosen to put themselves online. And surely a photographer should see the beauty in every body type?

Is she still super disciplined? (Sorry for all the questions I'm getting flashbacks from when I used to follow her)

You summed her up perfectly when you mentioned her huge superiority complex. She came across that way even back when I followed her.

I'd say her employees are walking on eggshells around her.

 

[ughplease]

Oh my God does she still do those really detailed moody shoots? I stopped following her years ago, I couldn't stick the constant negativity and complaining.

Yup. If anything they have become more bland and generic. It’s been YEARS of the same style of content, same concepts and poses, again and again. It’s so boring. She complains about algorithms and people not valuing the ~true high quality art~ she slaves to create. But in marketing there’s something called creative and asset fatigue. You can have the most brilliant and beautiful campaign in the world but people simply get sick of seeing the same thing over and over again. And no, moving the shoot from in front of a brown door to in front of the Eiffel Tower isn’t fresh creative. Then she took forever to get on board with video content, complained about it constantly, and even now it’s like slo mo footage, overly posed, really boring with no point and no story, the total opposite of what kind of video content would perform well.

I can’t remember clearly the bit with her dad calling out, maybe someone else does. But in the few days before her stories got REALLY aggressive (more than usual) and I thought she seemed stressed out. Then she posted a screen shot of her dad messaging her saying she isn’t a 13 year old girl, she’s a grown woman and to grow up and face her challenges (or something). Like a harsh motivation thing. And to be fair she was like, yeah true. But she was definitely acting really melodramatic and that was the final straw for me, I needed a break and I muted her content. It was at the point where it’s like, oh what’s Audrey going to be ranting and raving about today? Didn’t have the energy for it.

The way she talks about men is so weird. I feel for her as her ex was horrible (full on abuser it seems) and she’s had a tough time. I was happy for her starting her new life. But she often seems to cope by being cruel and dehumanising toward others, and overloading herself with stress that she doesn’t cope very wel.

She’s still super disciplined, if not more than ever. It was a HUGE drama for her finding a good gym in Paris and this seems to have also fuelled her quite aggressive and cruel comments about men and how they’re all skinny and weak and gross and how she’d never have sex with them as she only likes big huge muscly men. Can you imagine if a man was saying this tit about women? In a gym setting especially? I feel like in general she views men as these accessories, a marker of whether she’s single or not, and she doesn’t think of them as someone to have a meaningful and loving partnership with. She lists must haves in men (pretty much all superficial things) that remind me of childish lists my friends and I made when we were 14.

 

[WeLoveTea]

If a man said this about her, we would not hear the end of it. Also the super huge muscly men are usually the arrogant ones in which she hates…?
She probably wants to run into a rich muscly successful man to invest in her business.
Also trigger warning for my next sentence, so apologies in advance, but I feel her “discipline” on getting huge is another small form of ED/body dysmorphia, particularly that she had issues before when she went really skinny, those sort of things never tend to leave you.
Either that or vanity overload.

 

[Sparklelife2304]

I guess Paris is so last year.. anyone still bothered with this one?

 

[lucelike]

I unfollowed her last year I found her insufferable. What’s she up to recently?

 

[WeLoveTea]

I unfollowed her last year I found her insufferable. What’s she up to recently?

currently in Dubai, after a slew of constantly moaning about Paris and the weather (it’s winter babe)
I think she’s just miserable wherever she goes and always will be.

 

[Sparklelife2304]

currently in Dubai, after a slew of constantly moaning about Paris and the weather (it’s winter babe)
I think she’s just miserable wherever she goes and always will be.

This is it - a total chronic dissatisfaction with life.. nothing is ever good enough, and always someone elses fault.. what a horrible way to be