why oh why does she dress Ella like that, always so plain, she doesnt let her be a little girl she treats her like a fashion accessory. And what Is with those fake bloody glasses. My daughter had to wear real glasses to correct her eyes at age 5 she hated them but it was essential so she HAD to wear them. Why force your kid into wearing something that's supposed to be medical for aesthetic reasons. Sick
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So shes going to teach her 5 year old daughter light editing techniques so she can photoshop her photos?! What kind of young woman is she trying to raise?! I'm so angry at this. She should be teaching her that she doesn't need all these fancy accessories and editing tools, that shes beautiful just the way she is. I actually cant believe that she even put that online. And if its something that Ella is interested in, then thats still wrong. A 5 year old child shouldn't be interested in that kind of thing at all. She should be playing vets with animals and barbies and lol dolls like most 5 year old girls.
Also, she said Ella took these photos. Why is she teaching her daughter that this is how to pose for photos?! She really is something else
Also, she said Ella took these photos. Why is she teaching her daughter that this is how to pose for photos?! She really is something else
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I have really, really tried to keep following her because I used to enjoy her insta and content back when she started. But shes gotten more and more self involved, vain, entitled and just not what "influences" or inspires me anymore and with this, teaching your 5 year old how to pose and edit their photos, I think that's verging on something else all together. Lost a follower in me. And Ashleigh if you read this, which likely you do because to be fair I would, its human nature - please, please have a long hard think about how much of your children's lives you are putting online for the whole world to see. Regardless of all the unsavory people out there, even just generally. Its strange and to me now borders on a total lack of care for your children.
Came on to comment about the teaching your 5 year old to photoshop photos but you guys have said it all. The way she is with her children always annoys me but this is just another level. I hope she gets some comments about how bad this is and changes her ways. That wee girl is going to grow up thinking you need to look flawless and if you don’t, then you edit things to pretend that you are. All levels of wrong
The pose in those photos is so bleeping cringe. If your daughter wanted to take pictures of you wouldn’t you just do a nice smile or a silly face?! Pictures of family are meant to be fun and for making memories. What is this memory of Ash your photoshopped arse?!
So glad you guys have all thought the same about the photos. Also putting in her daughter’s full name - it’s almost like she wants it to be seen as a brand - wonder if that’ll be a new account 
She needs to stop photoshopping her pictures giving herself weird and obscure body shapes. Putting her life online and flaunting her daughter - one day soon Ella will see her account and believe that all the photoshopping, image fixing and absolute obsession with appearance is what you need to do to be successful in life.
I feel for her kids especially Charlie he just gets looked over and ignored so much (apart from when it insta suits her)
I feel for her kids especially Charlie he just gets looked over and ignored so much (apart from when it insta suits her)
its genuinely worrying how much she exploits her children .. with the creepy comments on her vlogs surely that would make her concerned. Given her husbands line of work in specialised organised crime & drug enforcement team she should be more aware of her putting her life on social media, given he could be a target. Her children dont have a choice of the camera being stuck in their faces 24/7. She really needs to educate herself on online safety, and whilst shes doing that she could also educate herself on clothes sizing! time to give up the insta Ash its really doing you and your family no favours.
It’s just so sad that this wee girl is already focussed on looks. She’s praised for how she looks, rather than things she is. You never hear her saying ‘aw Ella you worked really hard on that’ it’s always ‘aw Ella you’re stunnin’.
Hopefully she starts school and gets a teacher who teaches her that life isn’t all fake glasses, filters and posing for her maws IG.
Hopefully she starts school and gets a teacher who teaches her that life isn’t all fake glasses, filters and posing for her maws IG.
She takes Ella out when it’s cold in wee socks and a skirt. The girl has two jackets on, maybe cover up her legs?!
Trousers don’t fit her aesthetic
And maybe shes seen the amout of attention Kate hayes is getting and decided she wants in on the action!?
Her after dark cleaning vlog, was she really up at 1am cleaning?! And I didn’t want or need to see her scrubbing away at her toilets 
Definitely think she's been having a nosey on here. Hi Ash 
I can understand why some things might get to her, we're all only human and no one is perfect. I know I'd be mortified if I knew of people commenting on my kids and their clothes or what they eat, the activities I do with them, etc. At the same time though, as soon as you put yourself and your kids out there in the public domain, it opens you up to having strangers pass judgement on your life, and some of that judgement is unfortunately going to be harsh to you, because not everyone will agree or look at things through the same eyes.
I know I could never put my kids out in the public domain, as I just wouldn't want to open myself up to that criticism. I feel like anyone who chooses to do that, would need to have a really thick skin. As a mum, it's our job to do our best by our kids, and I'm sure Ash just wants to do the best for Ella and Charlie too. It's completely fair and reasonable that 'doing your best' is totally different for each mum. I think it would be nice to see some more normality from her and not a completely edited, filtered life. No one's perfect, and I don't really want to sit and watch someone who is perfect via editing!
I can understand why some things might get to her, we're all only human and no one is perfect. I know I'd be mortified if I knew of people commenting on my kids and their clothes or what they eat, the activities I do with them, etc. At the same time though, as soon as you put yourself and your kids out there in the public domain, it opens you up to having strangers pass judgement on your life, and some of that judgement is unfortunately going to be harsh to you, because not everyone will agree or look at things through the same eyes.
I know I could never put my kids out in the public domain, as I just wouldn't want to open myself up to that criticism. I feel like anyone who chooses to do that, would need to have a really thick skin. As a mum, it's our job to do our best by our kids, and I'm sure Ash just wants to do the best for Ella and Charlie too. It's completely fair and reasonable that 'doing your best' is totally different for each mum. I think it would be nice to see some more normality from her and not a completely edited, filtered life. No one's perfect, and I don't really want to sit and watch someone who is perfect via editing!
Agree. I dont doubt she's a good mum and adores her kids, but she portrays such an image obsessed life. Nothing at all wrong with wanting a nice home and well turned out family, but she seems to have taken it to new levels. She's really creative and could do so much more than just churn out heavily filtered, highly co ordinated images of herself and her kids. Her insistence that she is a size 12, the work she has had done at a pretty young age, the heavy filtering for "the aesthetic"- it all smacks of someone that isnt that comfortable in her skin and she will pass that on to her kids. If she is reading here, my advice would be to do the work on herself, and shift her focus away from having this perfectly co ordinated but shallow looking life.Definitely think she's been having a nosey on here. Hi Ash
I can understand why some things might get to her, we're all only human and no one is perfect. I know I'd be mortified if I knew of people commenting on my kids and their clothes or what they eat, the activities I do with them, etc. At the same time though, as soon as you put yourself and your kids out there in the public domain, it opens you up to having strangers pass judgement on your life, and some of that judgement is unfortunately going to be harsh to you, because not everyone will agree or look at things through the same eyes.
I know I could never put my kids out in the public domain, as I just wouldn't want to open myself up to that criticism. I feel like anyone who chooses to do that, would need to have a really thick skin. As a mum, it's our job to do our best by our kids, and I'm sure Ash just wants to do the best for Ella and Charlie too. It's completely fair and reasonable that 'doing your best' is totally different for each mum. I think it would be nice to see some more normality from her and not a completely edited, filtered life. No one's perfect, and I don't really want to sit and watch someone who is perfect via editing!
I agree, If she's been having a sneaky read on here, in comparison to some people's her thread really isn't bad at all!
I still quite like ash to be fair, I went off her with the whole remnant kings fiasco, and I think she's gotten much more materialistic.
If she packed that in, came down to earth a bit and let the kids be kids a bit more and stop exposing them so much online, I think we'd all barely have anything to say.
I still quite like ash to be fair, I went off her with the whole remnant kings fiasco, and I think she's gotten much more materialistic.
If she packed that in, came down to earth a bit and let the kids be kids a bit more and stop exposing them so much online, I think we'd all barely have anything to say.
Yes!! Definitely admire her creativity, some of her ideas are great, especially the Halloween costumes! I used to like watching her videos because it felt like she was a pal who lived down the road who you'd enjoy catching up with for a coffee. Now it feels like shes so image obsessed and I don't find that relatable at all. I think it's starting to show that keeping up appearances is starting to crack for her.
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