I'll probably get bashed for this but I personally think that someone who has to constantly gloat about their partner, whether it's short term or long time, is trying to prove a point in something along the lines.
As a clear fact that Sean, and not only outted on Tattle but by those who work with Aoibhe and Sean, have revieled that he is an idiot and disliked by those who work with him. Aoibhe knew this, knew her choices will be questioned and wanted to prove a point, left right and center about Sean. It seemed like she wanted to be the person that "changed him" and turned him into a family man. Aoibhe wanted to gloat like the cat who got the milk. She bagged the man (that no one liked) She bagged the house (that Sean already got a mortage for anyways) She bagged the liftstyle that I'm pretty sure she aimed to achieve as soon as she got the AL job and that was her ambition throughout, regardless.
Aoibhe left a previous, already engaged, relationship for this fairytale Air Hostes meets Pilot and flew away into the sunset and I think she would have happily bagged ANY man that was a pilot and shown her attention.
Aoibhe can't control who she fancies and of courses picks the obnoxious man it seems and has had countless of people questioning and reasoning with her so to back them off, and to convince herself, she dedicates her time, energy and effort to write continuously about Sean. Now I'm not saying he's right or wrong, good or bad but what I'm saying is, Aoibhe has this misconception that her fairytale lifestyle was going to happen at a click and as soon as the kids came along, everything would be hunky dory and her life will be filled with endless flights here and there, destinations to places I probably couldn't pronounce and the kids will have years of wounderful adventures behind them. That her and Sean will have this relationship that everyone will want. No relationship is perfect and no one is perfect so she shot herself in the foot continuoisly by writing so much about Sean that actually, it made me think he wasn't as perfect as she wanted him to come across. As soon as the essays about him stopped, the fairytale stopped. But of course, she blamed the "trolls" for lack of posting or prime example, before the second child came along, removed herself from Social Media altogether to hide from the fact that actually people were sick and tired of her falseness and didn't want to admit to herself that actually her and Sean are not a match whatsoever.
What Aoibhe failed to realise that dreams and reality don't always meet and can fail. She had her dream glasses on and didn't care what was in her way.
No Aoibhe doesn't deserve the hardship of it all and I can't begin to imagine how she's feeling but one has to wounder, did she honestly think for 1 second that this wasn't going to all end in tears somehow or another? Not only her relationship but the fact that she posts so much online that I'm surprised we don't know what colour knickers she is wearing that negativity, questions and assumptions will be made at all aspect of her life and to say "she wanted to stop the questions" is just inviting MORE questions?
Stop me if I'm rambling on here but I genuinely think the girl is trolling a lot of people knowing they are viewing her. Aoibhe plays the poor me, life is hard game but us, the followers looking at her, really can't see it. I hope this is a lesson learned she actually sits back and realises that you can be an influencer, without being an idiot.