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@Nona2020 you are more correct.
It's 2021 and prior to pandemic, Insta-putas (whores) have already been on the rise even before the pandemic. If men are ogling and drooling over any Instawhore, then sorry not sorry, we ladies don't live our lives to follow and be like any Insta-
bleep that men usually follow and like.
While the consequences of getting old and single is left feeling sad, we ladies should not be obligated, not even our parents, to look pleasing to attract men. We are not born to live according to what society is expecting among us. As long as we are not whoring, continuously reaping success via our chosen careers (and I don't consider escorting and sugardating a career), we live honorably, we don't obsess much on luxury stuff, we make ourselves well-groomed and that should be okay.
Women have all the right to make their hair short. Besides, it's more beneficial than trying to grow hair long, because it adds weight on our scalp further and if we make a habit of pulling and tying our hair could possibly cause alopecia to some of us. I am basing on my experience because the habit of tying my hair (and my hair is already thin) besides all the stress I experienced gave some bald spots on my hair so I ended up keeping it short.
Also, we all have the rights for androgynous look. We all have the rights to go a bit masculine. We all have the rights to go grunge as long as we don't show much skin like some instawhores do.
Lately, I don't get all the hate on 50-50 women. In a married setting with children, a man is expected to provide money for everything ---- for rent, bills, food etc while the wife can keep her earned money for herself. However, it is not wrong for women to contribute. If a women happens to have ended up in a continuously hardworking man, then lucky her. If a man has no job, but he makes up in keeping the household and rearing children, that's fine. That's already a contribution.
But in an unmarried situation, a lady should not expect she will be provided for by her man 100%, whether they are cohabiting or not. A lady should make some contribution to the relationship so that a man will not grow tired of loving and caring for her. Maybe I am basing on my observation since, it seems we do not have domestic partnership in the Philippines, though cohabitation is growing more rampant. If a man does not provide, nor even manage in keeping household and gone addicted to porn and mobile games like Mobile Legends, then a lady can leave him.
Just like you Nona2020, I strongly believe that catching a guy and getting married to him does not mean accomplishment or an achievement, despite me living in a society where toxic family members, relatives, neighbors are alive and well, nitpicking at someone's marital status. I may have grew strong and staunch in my beliefs but I believe not all women are like me and some of them grew depressed due to the toxicity that reeks in their surroundings.
And I truly believe forcing femininity onto women is toxic as
duck.
Would be shame if we wasted all that hilarious material 
. Well, any channel to wake people up from a scammer is welcome, isn't it?
