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Lol I canā€™t even imagine buying new stuff third time round, in hindsight everything seems like such a waste of money to me, I think Iā€™d buy everything second hand.
I completely agree! Literally no need when everything gets used for such a short amount of time really. Saying that, I know how much my pram goes through day to day, so Iā€™m glad that was one of my only new purchases. šŸ¤£
 
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That was my first thought too. Then I tried to relate it to my situation. My daughter has known her step dad much longer than Aliceā€™s (we have been together 3 years, and she met him after 6 months). But she is quite tactile with him. I donā€™t think she would rest her leg on him but she does hold his hand sometimes (she is 9). Iā€™ve also tried to make sure she feels like she can do that (obviously only if she wants to and it took years of them knowing each other). So I felt guilty for judging Aliceā€™s picture (for once!). We all live together so my children probably see my husband much more than Aliceā€™s see hers. I donā€™t know what to think really.

Ok. So now I have looked again and is that his hand on her daughterā€™s leg?
 
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That was my first thought too. Then I tried to relate it to my situation. My daughter has known her step dad much longer than Aliceā€™s (we have been together 3 years, and she met him after 6 months). But she is quite tactile with him. I donā€™t think she would rest her leg on him but she does hold his hand sometimes (she is 9). Iā€™ve also tried to make sure she feels like she can do that (obviously only if she wants to and it took years of them knowing each other). So I felt guilty for judging Aliceā€™s picture (for once!). We all live together so my children probably see my husband much more than Aliceā€™s see hers. I donā€™t know what to think really.

Ok. So now I have looked again and is that his hand on her daughterā€™s leg?
Yes his hand on her leg. Itā€™s kinda weird I think
 
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This whole thing gives me the creeps

but I just would have huge boundaries about introducing new strange men to my kids anyway never mind have them in these situations
 
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What happened to this jokers grand 2022 blog resurrection? One post about orzo pasta. Give it up Gretchen, stop trying to make ā€˜bloggerā€™ happen.
 
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