Alice Evans & Ioan Gruffudd #275 Alice is not a victim of the family court, she’s an abuser of it!

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chasingsunsets11

Her latest post is basically a confession that she's shit with money, isn't it? There are documents that show that Ioan's paid her hundreds of thousands of dollars over the last few years but she's constantly whining on instagram that she's broke. All this shows is that she can't budget.
Also, may I remind everyone that she was happily posting stuff about the dry ice and that fish delivery for example just a couple of months ago.. Why would you spend money on nonessential stuff like this when you could rather spend it on school supplies or medical bills? A medical emergency can happen anytime. If she had any financial awareness she would've put money aside for that. Thanks to the court documents we can all see she has/had the financial means to do so (courtesy of Ioan and his overpayments).

Btw it astounds me how you can go over 50 years in your life without ever having to really behave as an adult. How to budget, pay your bills on time and live within your means are one of the first few things you learn in life when you're on the road to adulthood. How can you be so irresponsible, especially when there's kids involved?

Also, interesting that after "we just want to be left alone" and Ella filing for a literal restraining order against Ioan (which means she wants no contact), the new narrative - according to Alice - seems to be that she wants for her father to take her to a concert. Because that makes perfect sense, ey? Narcs really do live in their own little world full of delusions.
 
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welp

If paying 650k support over 3.5 years and attempting to stay in their lives (and he really gave especially Ella more chances than she deserved considering what she did to him, and boy, how patient he was) is "going too far" and deserving of no longer having a relationship to them, than I want to know what punishments those fathers that just about pay child support or not even that deserve.

Ioan was way way way way way too nice, and he probably still is. But clearly not as much as he was which is excellent news. Alice loves to praise herself as the mother of the year, but she does it by taking credit for somebody else's efforts: both when it comes to money (Ioan) and activities (childrens friends family), you dont deserve credit if you just coexist with them just because you want to cash in that sweet support money (and even moan how you cant hire a nanny to do this) and have an excuse to not work regularly. It's time that she actually does something for it.

You reap what you sow. It seems like Karma may finally arrive.

I hope Ioan continues to now pay only what he has to (he already overpaid 400k after all) and does as many nice things as possible for himself and his loving family (be it Bianca, their dog, future kids, their respective families in Wales and Oz), which obviously the girls could be still part in if they and their mother wanted and if they show remorse for their behavior, but he cant force them to. You can't force people to their luck, but you also can't give them whatever they demand.
 
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Ally Pally

Has she actually read that stipulation that she's signed ?? I find it abhorrent that she's still fraudulently trying to obtaining monies by deception by peddling that GFM.
That plane is going to hit a lot of turbulence on the way into landing I reckon with Alice being the only casualty!
 
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Ally Pally

The facts are that Alice has got money put aside and Ioan's forensic accountant found it's hiding place, it's just that Alice doesn't want to spend it on the loves of her life
 
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welp

Just to summarize

Alice signs prenup - doesnt like something in there - Ioan is evil

Alice signs stipulation - doesnt like something in there - Ioan is evil

Alice agrees to a temporary settlement - doesnt like something in there - Ioan is evil

Idk man, perhaps you should start to learn how to read

Also it's hilarious that her fans complain about him "controlling" her. How is it controlling if she is responsible for her own bills and gets child support and he pays a whole insurance to cover his bit? The stuff about travelling is BS as the stipulation shows (he has no power over passport renewals and she is free to take them on trips out of the states if she gives notice), but Alice wouldnt take them to travels, she doesnt even take them out of LA lmao

The only one that is "controlling" is Alice because she tries to blackmail money out of him that she is NOT ENTITLED to and she tries to shame him for living his life as he sees fit (after she already controlled him over sabotaging his relationship to his kids). It doesnt matter that Ioan takes vacations (actually most of it are work trips), neither Alice nor the kids are entitled to have the same life standard as him (which is partly contributed by a third party living with him) because he doesnt have joint custody. She should have thought about this before she alienated them and fought against joint custody. Ioan would also be a horrific parent if he would given in to blackmail (because it's nothing else, really, he could give her 100k per month and she would still claim this, and the kids would still treat him like dirt, just like Ella did from the start)
 
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MrsDimSum

Alice could be given an unlimited bank account and the moon on a fucking stick and she’d still wake up each morning and choose violence.
 
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Ellegee

The girls couldn’t possibly suffer any more than they already are. Nothing has stopped Alice so far. I think the only way to stop her is some time behind bars. The courts haven’t managed to keep her quiet, meanwhile the girls have to listen to her ranting & raving about it all, the more she goes on the more poison their heads are filled with. I don’t imagine a single day goes by without one or both having a knot in their stomachs from the stress of it all. No child should have to carry this burden.
She said they’re off to stay with friends soon while she is away so at least we know there is someone can take them & they wouldn’t be placed with a random family, Ioan I’m sure would be more than happy to approve. I used to be against the Jail idea because I really thought they had nowhere to go but now I feel happy knowing that they do, she needs real consequences fast. She is escalating dangerously.
 
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Bridgeofsighs

Ally Pally said:
The facts are that Alice has got money put aside and Ioan's forensic accountant found it's hiding place, it's just that Alice doesn't want to spend it on the loves of her life
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Eh, she's saving it for their college fund! Or at least that's what she'll tell Judge Josh...
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welp said:
She should have thought about this
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Thinking is a bit hard for the "smartest person in the room".
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MrsDimSum said:
Alice could be given an unlimited bank account and the moon on a fucking stick and she’d still wake up each morning and choose violence.
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Yes you have basically described her 20 years with Ioan.
 
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Ally Pally

Bridgeofsighs said:
Eh, she's saving it for their college fund! Or at least that's what she'll tell Judge Josh...
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Then Judge Josh will tell her that she should have declared it as such and send Ioan away with a flea in his ear
And then I awoke from my dream of being at a swifty concert in Cardiff with Ioan .....
 
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AuroraBorealis


I just realised that Big Al may be short not just Alice but also alethophobe. Big Alethophobe Alice.

alethophobia (psychology) - A fear or dislike of the truth; an unwillingness to come to terms with truth or facts.

She could add that to her endless list of ailments and illnesses.



ETA: Looks like I still have 10+ pages of catching up to do!
 
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Feather fans

Im also wondering - and unlike many here I have no day to day living with a narc experience, so I might be wrong - but is it just the narc rage of not getting her way and like Treakletrixter suggested trying to harass Ioan for money as if in medical emergency for the sake of attention/ getting her way or confirming to her "new tribe" : see, SEE?! He doesnt care!!!
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Is that a narc rage of someone who has to spend money they earmarked for addictive substances?
On one hand I agree and see the logic when it is suggested she stockpiled the money. On the other hand I wonder: what is she indeed blew it all. Dont know on what - coke, alcohol, other meds? We will never know I guess..
 
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AuroraBorealis

brie l said:
Typos are getting worse as the wine and anger kicks in.
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Not just typos. I noticed quite a few grammar mistakes as well. For someone, who is always nitpicking how others (including people to whom English is not a native language but just one of the 3-6 languages they speak) express themselves in English, it is even more embarrassing to write "you're" instead of "your" and other such stuff.
 
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Ametrine

She also wrote "teh" instead of "the" a lot last night too.

Looks like "teh" is the new "abs"!
 
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Invictus

Hope Yos lawyers or the school have called in a welfare check. Not taking a sick child to the doctor for 10 days, whining about cost of care, ranting (drunkenly) on SM for hours and hours. Who is taking care of the sick kid if she's passed out or can't he bothered to put her phone down?
 
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