Thank you all so much for your support last night and this morning. I’m so sorry I took over the thread.
I’ve not spoken to my son today, I’m lying low and resting today as I’ve felt unwell since I woke up from all the stress flaring the CFS symptoms. He’s stormed out this morning and told my husband he did nothing wrong and he’s the one being picked on at home. There’s no getting through to him he’s the one causing the stress when the rest of us are being kind; keeping eachothers spirits up and he’s not on the same page as us in terms of keeping safe. My husband has said he will be having a talk with him tonight as we can’t carry on living like this. He either sticks to our rules to keep us all safe or he will have to move out. We can’t be living with this level of stress and abuse from him anymore. We can’t let him go where he likes and live like he did pre covid and he has to accept the time we’re in. He can’t keep being in denial. I said to him yesterday, it's far easier to be kind to eachother and support eachother through what already is a very stressful time, than to make life harder for each other and cause additional stress that no one needs. He had nothing to say to that.
I’m now going silent with him, I feel terrible as a mum doing that but I can’t keep brushing his behaviour under the carpet. He tries to act all nice the day after an outburst to then do it again within a few days.
Thank you all so much xx
I’ve not spoken to my son today, I’m lying low and resting today as I’ve felt unwell since I woke up from all the stress flaring the CFS symptoms. He’s stormed out this morning and told my husband he did nothing wrong and he’s the one being picked on at home. There’s no getting through to him he’s the one causing the stress when the rest of us are being kind; keeping eachothers spirits up and he’s not on the same page as us in terms of keeping safe. My husband has said he will be having a talk with him tonight as we can’t carry on living like this. He either sticks to our rules to keep us all safe or he will have to move out. We can’t be living with this level of stress and abuse from him anymore. We can’t let him go where he likes and live like he did pre covid and he has to accept the time we’re in. He can’t keep being in denial. I said to him yesterday, it's far easier to be kind to eachother and support eachother through what already is a very stressful time, than to make life harder for each other and cause additional stress that no one needs. He had nothing to say to that.
I’m now going silent with him, I feel terrible as a mum doing that but I can’t keep brushing his behaviour under the carpet. He tries to act all nice the day after an outburst to then do it again within a few days.
Thank you all so much xx