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Unfortunately, I have first hand experience of Jess Warner, I was utterly gobsmacked when I discovered she was an influencer.

Her children have always been utterly out of hand and vile, there is no way on earth H is autistic, in fact he spent most of his early school career bullying an actually autistic child to the point of breakdown (including shouting in their face every time he walked near them, physical abuse, trying to suffocate them, shutting in toilets, the list goes on). This started in Reception.

She was never interested in connections with other mums, never talked to anyone or made eye contact. Really acted like she was a cut above. I was shocked to hear her tale of woe origin story tbh. I know for a fact she was included in birthday parties and would turn them down.

Her older sons were allowed free run of the village they lived in from a young age and caused trouble. They were out of hand then so it’s no wonder they are off the rails now. I think she sums is up when she disregards ‘pinching kids in the playground’ as not impactful shit like smoking weed. It’s the foundation for respect and fitting into society to teach appropriate behaviour when they’re little.

I know a lot of autistic kids through my job and personally and H does not fit the diagnosis, he travels around the countryside/school alone, has a job, has a big group of friends, has a girlfriend. It sickens me that his behaviour is being sold as neurodiversity. She has latched onto PDA traits and pushed for a private diagnosis in an attempt to mitigate his appalling behaviour and her complete lack of action or responsibility as a parent.

You know your baby is not a baby when... he is taking drugs, beating up his brother, calling his teacher's cunts not when he goes in for an x-ray on his own.

Dressed in beige, boys on the rampage, everything is a favourite if it pays the right wage

I deal with kids like H every day and quite frankly it’s draining the life out of me. Im called a bitch, a cunt and everything under the sun sometimes simply for trying to get students to be polite and follow the rules. I have to put up with parents like Jess and it is soul destroying to feel like a kid doesn’t respect you because their parent doesn’t. I don’t know why she thinks it’s ok to slag off his school and teachers. This job is really ducking hard and arseholes like her don’t make it easier. She makes my blood boil.

Mess Warner is a fraudster plain and simple! Her life is one massive example of how succeed by being a real life living troll. Anyone who doesn't bow down to her demands is treated in an identical (and what is becoming a repetitive) format. She openly trolls her ex husband, who by the way is in a really stable and happy relationship, whilst clearly conditioning her boys to hate him.....yet she is the victim. She openly trolls parents who took a stand in protecting their children from H's poor behaviour in primary school, attributing their zero birthday invites as the single most devastating impact that led to H's further descent into poor behaviour........and yes she and H again are still the victims. She openly trolls the "over zealous" senco (who's name and identity by the way is easily accessible online or in the locality, as are all the individuals she identifies without naming outright) knowing that the senco in question has zero platform due to safeguarding to respond/defend their position in relation to the torrent of abuse she has levelled at this individual through TOGITH instagram account. She has trolled multiple staff members of her boys high-school with an absoloute low resulting in her dedicating a whole post at getting a dig in at the lady administering paracetamol to her injured Bruno (injured emotionally and physically by H, I might add). Any people with kids in this school know exactly who she is talking about, anyone who has any form of interaction with the school knows exactly who she is talking about yet her and her boys continue to be the victims. Mess conveniently abuses her position on instagram to poison opinions of identifiable individuals whilst they get zero response options other than remaining voiceless. Mess has no concept of brand allegiance, every week evolves around the peddling of yet another freebie product or service. Name one product promoted 12 months ago that is still to the forefront of her promotional posts. These companies need their heads checked. Lynne the hairdresser has been cast aside because of being friends with Nanna, Dr Sally is no more because after the first freebie botox Mess realises she now has to pay. No more freebie manicures by the lady local to Mess as surprise surprise after one or two initial freebie appointments Mess was expected to pay. Mess is on a six figure income yet she needed a loan of Nanna for a beach hut.........when are people going to see the light????

Lalla said:

She's so the PTWM type, lets her kids go out drinking and sets zero boundaries (PTWM was posting recently about her younger daughter and stepson, who are 12-13, coming in at midnight. I mean, I'm a laid-back parent but wtf?!). I'm sure H will be bringing girls back to his shed in the garden soon if he isn't already, and no doubt she'll turn a blind eye to that too...

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Just throwing condoms in through the window while shouting “Be safe, my angel!”

H who can’t deal with the classroom but deals with New Years Sales in London when his mum has her credit card out.

Fairly willing to put money on it that the irretrievable nature of the breakdown of their relationship centres around her mother telling Jess a few home truths. Remember mum has been there through thick and thin and is better versed than anyone on Jess' repetitive poor life choices, heck you only have to follow Jess' account for a short period of time to see this for yourself. You can almost see it........her mum probably called H out on his behaviour/lack of discipline, or pointed out how shallow and uninvested a relationship it is Jess has with Russ when they got back together. Jess is completely incapable of holding her hands up and taking accountabilty for anything, it's always someone else's fault and I fear Nan has been thrown on the slag heap for being nothing more than a genuinely concerned mother and Nan who's watched her daughter continuously cock one thing after another up.

Is she for real? Passed his test on Monday and waited ever so patiently until today for his car?!

Fuck off and when you get there fuck off some more. She’s an entitled brat of a woman and she’s brought her kids up the same way. God forbid he had to wait to get a car, Christ alive. Let’s see how long until she’s telling us about his first accident - which of course won’t be his fault.

At least she knows what he did with the £20 she bribed him with.

I would be embarrassed that the only pictures my sons would take with me are when they’re swearing. It really echoes a massive issue teachers are facing at the minute- students, particularly boys I’m sad to say, who just have no respect or basic manners and it makes teaching difficult. I am really fed up of being spoken to like shit by arrogant teens who don’t seem to see the issue in calling a teacher a dickhead or a bitch. I can just envisage how Jess’ boys behave towards their teachers and how she never ever backs down. Ridiculous.

Funding is a huge issue for schools when what little funding they have for SEN students is being pilfered by dick heads like H who have every fucking problem under the sun when in the school environment but can function perfectly fine outside the school environment....... travelling to Dubai alone, off in to London with his mates alone, holds down a part time job, has a long term functioning relationship with his girlfriend, secures a pay rise in his job.

At the end of the day calling teachers c**ts should absolutely result in a kid being removed from a classroom. If that removal means he has to sit alone in a room/corridoor for the rest of day completing token worksheets, well fuck off then and don't call your teacher such a vile term. If he called a police officer a c**t in response to any form of request/questioning from said police officer he'd potentially be arrested on the spot. If he is dicking about with drug parafinalia on school grounds he absolutely should be kicked out of the school minimally for a period of exclusion. Tough shit if he has to spend days alone as a result and looses the privilege of teacher lead lessons , don't be using drugs trying to be the big I am then.

H has access to a specialist school where they have all the time and energy to create bespoke timetables and lessons but he doesn't want to be associated with a school that have genuine specialist educational needs students due to the fact he is no more neurodiverse than a potato. H just has a raging bull of a temper as a result of emotional damage caused by both his mum and dad being unbelievably hideous people to each other throughout the nastiest of seperations.

Jess bought a private diagnosis only to use her purchase, along with her insta presence as a battering ram by which to bash every system within the school he attends. Its all she does and it is all she seems relatively successful at and that is blaming!

Not once in any of her rants has she put forward a model or clearly structure strategy to address all the things H's school fails to address. There is a reason for this because at the end of the day she doesn't want a solution, she is only fired up by opportunities to appear as a victim always.

I'd never heard of this one before, but I saw ptwm had shared the story about her cabin so thought I'd take a look...
....and then ended up down a right rabbit hole and KNEW she would have a thread on here!

Is she really only in her 30s? Jesus she's had a hard paper round if so!
Does she not feel embarrassed about the relentless oversharing? In a 10 min skim I've read stuff about her son kicking off at school, her contraception and relationship therapy I feel embarrassed for her!

I am not a fan of putting kids (even if they are teenagers) in glorified sheds in the garden. How to either make them feel they're not a part of the family - or give them carte blanche to be getting up to all sorts out there because you can't see them!

I'd rather sleep on the sofa and give up my bedroom than my children (or stepchildren) sleep in the garden. Or you know, just make them share rooms as siblings have done for decades

Anyone else get the impression she’s so jealous of her stepson for landing an extremely high profile modelling job, that she just HAD to insert that little barb at the end about being glad that there’s one less person in the house?

I thought it was very telling.

I found her PTA post so confusing. “Oh I was so scared of the PTA when I was a single mum of 25. They were all OLD and snobby and wore Boden and I didn’t fit in at all!”

She is literally the archetype of the middle class primary school PTA mum. Slim, attractive, high end clothes, jolly hockey sticks personality… what on earth made her think she was so different to them 10 years ago?

Bet she only joined for a new Instagram angle/engagement stream anyway