I have been watching these threads for about 2 months now and couldnt resist any longer so had to create an account to post something
I knew Tanya about 2 years ago (I wont say where from because it will give my name away I think), and even though we are no longer friends (we are still facebook and instagram friends though) I had to chip in and let it out that all this money spending she does causes massive rows between her and Derek (or taco as you call him
lol). She has a very serious compulsive spending disorder and at one point in the mid stages of their relationship, taco would monitor the spending on the online banking app throughout the day to see what she had been buying then it would all flare up and she used to threaten to leave him and he would back down and just let her do it. He is just as insecure as she is! But last time I knew them they were in an awful lot of debt with online catalogue or store cards and she just used to keep taking out new credit cards and swapping the balance to get interest free.
I can confirm she 100% buys things for herself and pretends they are from her other half, she used to do it when she was with her ex husband as well. She also used to write on Prosecco or wine bottles little love notes to herself and pretend they are from Derek.
I dont know Natascha but I do sort of know John (through his brother and my ex husband) and those men (if you can call them that) used to say the most disgusting things about their partners when they are together. Derek once confided in John and said he cant keep up with Tanya and feels suffocated (this was about one year ago, I think just after they went to Cornwall with Tanyas daughters and stayed in a cottage?). He even said he considered leaving her but he is stuck in a rutt and is very complacent, but before she got into the instagram postings she wasn't that bad as she is now. She used to be on her phone every minute of the day looking at profiles on instagram and to see who had purchased the latest item and she would then go into Amazon or any other website and buy it without thinking about the cost.
Like I said I dont know Natascha so cant say anything about her, but I do know from my ex husband having beers with John and Derek that John cheats on his wife regularly. He has had sex with about 7 other women since being married to Natascha and Derek was complimentary of this behaviour. John and Derek also know how much Tanya hates Natascha and Derek said that some evenings, Tanya used to say really disgusting things about Natascha, about her house, her decorating, furniture and even her looks and how her children will end up fucked up and have severe mental health issues as they grow into adults.
I have written so much sorry lol but I just couldnt help it any longer. I was reading these threads every day and found myself nodding my head at just how correct you all were getting things and I couldnt help but be happy that complete strangers were seeing Tanya for what she is. And also I do find it funny here especially the pictures you all put on and the hashtags.
I am friends with Tanya on Instagram but I never like any of her pictures, I'm only on there to see what the nutter has done next.