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QueenBW

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Coming in from the Jim Chapman thread... Sarah posted this, essentially stating Tanya cheated. We have all long suspected it, either emotional or full on, it was pretty obvious. Sarah clearly is getting fed up with this trying to keep the peace and I'm here for all the tea and drama.
 

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Tanya Burr #15 She’s expecting a little sprog but we haven't forgotten about the dog
 
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getawaywithit

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Thisisnotanad said:
I never knew there were so many rules! In summary:

-You have to be single as an adult for an acceptable period of time after ending your marriage.

-You can't call your new partner the love of your life publicly anywhere since it's insensitive to your EX.

-You can't date straight after leaving a relationship.

-You can't propose to the first person you date after ending a relationship.

-You can't exhibit, parade, show off your new partner and happiness online in case your EX and their fans are watching.

-You're not allowed to go on dating sites or dates until your divorce is final and the ink has dried.

-You're not allowed to propose before 48 months into dating and you may only do so to at least the 3rd partner you have post-divorce, partners 1 and 2 are just your rebound and the rebound's rebound...after of course being single for an adequate period of time otherwise it's unhealthy not to.

I'm sure I have missed quite a few...feel free to let me know.


I mean this is a trash thread for Tanya...but we all sound ridiculous with these expectations of what he should or shouldn't have done, as well as the when, why and how he lives his life. Lol.
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Oh give me a break with this stuff. It’s plain as day that Jim is weird as fuck, desperate to prove something, and needs to be in not only a relationship, make that relationship public immediately, but also lock down the highest commitment of marriage as fast as possible because he has more issues than Vogue.

Could all of you codependents with your weirdass stories about how you actually met your now husband when still married because it was over anyway (oh of course) but it worked out and ~10 years and 3 kids later~ you’re just the happiest you’ve ever been, just check your own insecurities. Jim hooked up with this girl IMMEDIATELY post divorce, put her straight on Insta despite or because knowing that all his followers were there because his public following is based off his just ended marriage, immediately moved her into his new place, and is now engaged just one year out. You guys? ITS WEIRD. We can admit that and laugh at Jim’s nonsense and you can go back to feeling fine with your own relationship hopping or whatever it is that’s got you so worked up about just pointing out the absurdity of it all.
 
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allthemyths

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Am I the only one who thinks that Tan – for once – handled all of this rather well? Especially compared to Jim? No rushed wedding and even time for the two (Tan + HWM) to get used to the new situation without blasting it out into the world. I'm almost a little impressed with her, I didn't expect that at all. Feeling really happy for her, I can actually see her being a good mom!
 
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Lilac Wine

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NinaSa said:
Does anyone know who she is dating? She must be really irrelevant to be able to keep him a secret because if she was relevant surely there would be more pap pics of the two of them together on google. She’s in for a rude awakening, I have an 11 month old and life is drastically harder with a kid. Unless she gets a nanny.
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I’m sure she’ll be fine, along with the billions of other people who also have kids.
 
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Her insta story really ticked me off yesterday I had been watching the news for hours and looking and whats going on and not sure how much she saw and then she posted the image below🤯im sorry but I just wish influencers or whatever they want to call themseves models or actors would actually invest the time to know what actually happened before posting anything. I remember during the black lives matter movement she made a promise or something that this subject would not be forgotten and she would keep posting and educating people about it and guess what she stopped talking about it! And now she posts this without knowing clearly that the president is the only one who can actually authorize the national guard to come in and he refused to do that yesterday! He got calls from loads of people in the white house and the prick refused to protect anyone but his one ass and now everyone in the news is worried this moron will just issue a pardon to all of those who stormed the capitol. (And if youve seen photos black and latinos were there too not just white people just like in the blm movement) And im sorry but when i saw this i just fet like all the white people at fault, white supremacy like shes putting everyone in one category not all white people are bad and not all black people are bad or latinos theres good and evil everywhere, just get your facts straight before you start educating or preaching i myself am still going to be looking to get more info today on what happened because one person was killed i cant imagine what their family is going through, sorry i just had to get this off my chestView attachment 376216

As if she didnt see the videos of police officers inside fighting the intruders white people fighting white people, this war is more than just about race
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Whoa, no, sorry - if you have an issue with her posting this, the issue is with you.

I'm educated - I'm an academic, and I agree with this sentiment. The degree of racism demonstrated yesterday through the police's lack of response is horrific.

19 black people were killed when protesting against the unlawful murder of George Floyd - and 14,000 were arrested in ONE DAY, for peacefully protesting.

The fact that an army of white people (who brought a giant cross like the KKK and a noose) committed federal crimes and only 13 were arrested and only one person was shot - it's tragic a person was killed, but the lack of police control is disproportionately disgusting.

Had this been a BLM riot, it would have been a massacre. If you're denying race should be included in the discussion here, you're not educated or well informed. Please read some books by black authors on the subject.
 
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getawaywithit said:
Tanya always said she wanted kids, but she saw herself having them in her mid 30s. She clearly wasn’t interested in trying to get pregnant in her late 20s. They split when she was only 29.

It is possible that Jim decided he wanted to start trying for children and Tanya didn’t feel ready. But it’s also not the same as Jim wanting children and Tanya not wanting any.

And yes, there is a good chance Tanya wanted to wait as she thought her acting career might take off lol and didn’t want to have children first. And we all know that endeavour was ridiculous in and of itself, but women are also entitled to try and experience things and live some trajectory of their life before entering motherhood.
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Jim said in a podcast that he realized Tanya was not the person to move on to the next step and have kids with and Sarah was. Like women are interchangeable incubators for him.
 
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Snazzycat

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QueenBW said:
I'm sorry, but when will this overprivileged, do nothing jerks stop complaining and acting like they're the first human ever to be pregnant? All the influencers appear to have the absolute worst first trimester. So they disappear and do even less work than they used to. Coinkidink. Meanwhile, out here in Real World, my coworker is at work, 8 to 5, every day, sometimes later, while on her first trimester. How about we talk about that, Tanya? Normalize providing something to society, normalize earning your living.

And what is that nonsense again about HWM being her best friend? Jim was her best friend. Now HWM is her best friend. I know all people are differnt but for me it's an immediate red flag when someone calls their romantic partner "their absolute best friend." It means , in my experience, that they are immature and make one single person carry all the weight. Yeah, she seems to be close to other friends and her family, but still. I can't imagine how it'd feel if my best friend with whom I went to primary school and has been my friend for over two decades suddenly started calling some dude that came into her life a couple years ago her best friend. And I can't imagine doing it, either. My ex was, at one point, my favorite person in the world, but that's different from my actual best friend.
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I think it's sweet her partner is her best friend, I don't think it's immature. It seems quite healthy to me that the person you have chosen to live with and have children with is your best friend, I would say the same about my partner.
 
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She said the dungarees are second hand from Zara in a reply to comment on her post. Did a search for ‘Zara floral dungarees’ and found an article recommending the exact pair (I think?) in an article about capturing Jennifer Lawrence’s maternity style. Wonder if she sought them out specifically after reading this for inspiration!View attachment 1288624
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Holy crap are you with MI6 or something? Some Tattlers’ talents for detective work really are going to waste!
 
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Tea&Toast said:
She’s definitely put on weight, I always thought she would gradually go back to her original weight. I’m guessing she can’t edit her photos as much as she used to now, as they would look too obvious against the press photos for Dior. She’s having to rely on angles to hide her arms and legs. Those boots were a bad choice with her ugly big knees spilling over. You can tell she does no exercise at all, by how flabby her arms and legs look.
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Yeah, maybe we can not body shame? There's observing weight gain and there's being unpleasant about it. I'm no Tanya fan, but it's not her fault that Dior make boots for very slender legs only.
 
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I’ve never posted anywhere ..but.. i saw Tanya this morning on the kings Rd in London, and she looked very pregnant ( i’d say 4 months or so)
I have a baby, and notice pregnant bodies even before looking at faces! I saw a young woman wearing dungarees/ overalls and thought “ that’s a cute bump” , definitely recognised pregnancy boobs ( they swell in a very telling way) and when i got to the face i recognised Tanya. She was talking/ walking to a male friend, and it was definitely her when i heard her voice.
I checked her IG and noticed if you scroll down, she hasn’t posted a full body pic in a while. The last one is her wearing black, which at that stage is easy to conceal with that colour.
Anyway, not sure anyone is interested, but thought i’d share!
 
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I am worried about Sarah. It’s very unhealthy behaviour from her, and I’d say it’s fairly certain she has been reading this forum. I googled ‘Tanya Burr cheating’ after she started throwing out those accusations and this thread was the first thing that came up after some generic ‘Tanya Burr and Jim Chapman have divorced’ articles, so I’m guessing she’s done the same with the same results.

With that in mind, I don’t want to drag her. For whatever reason she clearly is not very happy — happy people simply don’t obsess about their partner’s ex or stranger' opinions. Whatever you think of Tanya, she has clearly moved on with her life and has only ever had kind things to say publicly about Jim since their break. She has done relatively few interviews, and the main one she did was about her own life and the new future she was creating. I’m sure it helped a lot of women who may have gone through a divorce or serious break up to see a light at the end of the tunnel, and I don’t see why she should have to keep silent about her fear around that big life change — especially as she made it so clear it was not about Jim himself by saying he was still her best friend.

Ironically, the main message Tanya gave out in that interview was that she regretted oversharing online and had chosen to live more privately as a result — something Sarah could learn from.

Sarah I’m sure did receive a lot of negative attention at the start of her relationship with Jim given how soon it was since he had announced his divorce after so many years with Tanya. They built their relationship in the midst of this intensity — Jim fresh from a painful break up, Sarah newly in the public eye, the pair of them getting a lot of speculation thrown their way. It probably felt like them against the world and they bonded over this shared sense of injustice that people could judge them or think it was all a bit soon. It could be that proving everyone wrong (that she wasn’t a rebound, that Jim was ready to be with someone new) was at least a part of what kept them together. Sarah certainly derived satisfaction from it, she went back to reply to nasty comments on one of the first pictures they appeared in together a year later to 'remember the utter crap that was said.' Three years later they’re engaged and have a daughter and house, this should be their happily ever after where they settle down. But perhaps it feels a little flat now that they’re just living out the tiring life of new parents and don’t have any more drama fuelling them forwards. Perhaps the ‘us vs Tanya’ thing has become a toxic way to bond since it was forced on them when they were first together. Maybe since she was introduced as the new girlfriend after Tanya, three years later she remains paranoid that everyone is comparing her even when they’re not. Jim’s family and friends as well as strangers online. I worry she doesn’t have much of a support network of her own, if she did surely they would advise her against this behaviour. She should go to therapy if she isn’t already.

Sarah, if you’re reading this, please take care of yourself. Delete instagram from your phone and stop looking up what people irrelevant to your life are saying about you. It will all blow over in a couple of weeks and people will move on to the next thing. Don’t let insecurity stop you enjoying the first precious year of your daughter’s life. Having your attention taken up by such petty matters will affect her more than a bot comment she’ll never read. You’ll never get this time back.
 
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