brandambassador

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I’ve shared a lot re IVF in this thread & received nothing but support. It’s only right I share that we travelled this week to meet the surrogate we had been matched with abroad. Medical tests over the last 2 days, legal meetings and finally - an undersigned, understanding, generous so generous surrogate is ready to start a round of treatment with our embryo in Oct/November. I’ll share more when I can but for anyone TTC reading this, whether for the first time or secondary - or like me you physically cannot do pregnancy a second time- I hope reading this doesn’t hurt you my intention in sharing is to offer thanks to those who always dropped me a kind ❤ Or comment, and to offer hope to those still finding their way. I’m not Sarah I now this isn’t plain sailing and 12 months might see no update or positive round, but I’m choosing to just focus on each day & that’s my advice to anyone struggling.

Back to bitching about this cunt x
 
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wineo20

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Okay tattlers. You’ve have all shown me so much love over the last while. I got great news today no cancer. I have issues Simple procedures will sort that. To anyone going through the same thing my love goes out to you!
 
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francydoll

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I am beyond hurt, upset and angry at this horrible b€tches post. I acknowledge a loss is a loss - however, this r&t miscarried a 12 week foetus. She is now trying to say she gave birth and the foetus was born sleeping. I tell you what ‘born sleeping’ is you f’ing article. I really care very little if I am outed or recognised here. My son Charlie was stillborn in 2010. I was 41 weeks pregnant. He weighed 8lb 6oz. He had a head of black curls, he kicked, hiccuped and sucked his thumb. We had a textbook pregnancy however he strangled on his umbilical cord during a 36 hour labour. He was a beautiful little boy. We dressed him, brought him home, put him in a white coffin, had a Mass of the Angel’s, buried him with my grandmother and we love and miss him every day. Our lives were changed forever that day. I could rant here for hours. It pains me to see that she is putting down foundations now for a new journey as a pregnancy loss influencer. I am sorry if I have upset anyone for posting this but I am so hurt - I’ve cried since I read her post.
 
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Guys! I got a job! 😭 I don’t start until April but I got a job. Sorry I know this is off topic but I have MS & the stress of being made redundant could have exacerbated my symptoms meaning that I would not be physically able to attend an interview. ❤ Must have been yer good wishes Monday!

anyway back to Sarah & the fact that she is a cunt
 
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linlou37

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Lads, I wasn't going to comment, I rarely do anyways but I'm sitting here catching up and after seeing her post, I'm more than livid. My heart is broken thinking of ye all who have suffered a loss, whether misscarriage or stillbirth, a loss is a loss and a baby that is sorely wanted. Your life changes in that instant. And yes, my hearts broken for Sarah and Keith too. But her born sleeping comment wasn't needed. I understand in a way why she used it but it's a slap in the face for us that have had stillbirths.

As a previous poster shared about their little son Charlie at 41 weeks. My story is very similar. And SARAH I'll share this so you know the stark difference of a stillbirth at 41 weeks. Spending 26 hours on the labour ward after being told your baby has no heartbeat, hooked up to a morphine drip even after the epidural while getting blood tranfusions, waiting for that moment you can push. Praying that the midwives got it wrong cos afterall it was a plain sailing pregnancy. When you see your perfect babies face and hold her for the first time but then glance to see your partner and all the midwives crying. Saying your, maybe, last goodbyes while your whisked off for a serious operation. But seeing your baby again, waiting in her cot and spending those blissful days with her, bathing her and picking out her outfit for her funeral, and just loving her in person without hearing so much as a cry. Now SARAH thats traumatic.

I'm not looking for sympathy with this post and I don't mean to offend anyone either. All losses are traumatic but I don't like how Sarah has to have the MOST traumatic misscarriage. Its the extreme for everything with her. That's where my anger comes from. And to you all that have suffered a loss, sending virtual hugs and good thoughts 💗
 
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Dusty2020

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I know some of you think it’s tacky to get engaged at Christmas and that’s fair enough, Christmas Eve I was having a browse on my social media’s hoping to see an engagement/birth announcement as I love a good news story but there was none. I got up Christmas morning, went about my business, my other half asked me to come down the hallway he was trying on new clothes and wanted me to have a look at them, I sat down waiting for him to try on, next thing is he’s down on one knee.. well to say I got the shock of my life would be an understatement.. at one stage in my life I never thought I would have a partner never mind get engaged on Christmas Day, I’ve had a hard year with loosing a parent at 58, who was my world ( never mention here as I don’t like to derail and we all have shit to deal with) but anyway just thought I’d share my tacky Christmas Day engagement with you all 😃 can’t wait to get some wedding Inspo from Burp & teeth 🤡
 
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I mentioned this on another (but quieter) influencer thread lately. My intention over the Christmas hols is to set up a page to call out shady influencer behaviour. It won’t be those half wit pages that call out one bad photoshop of a nobody. This will be all the hidden AF, AD and the likes. It will call out the begging & it will call out the brand who gives in to the beggar instead of donating to good causes. It will list brands who do not gift to influencers but do charitable good deeds that we should support. It will list brands who actively support bigots, bullies, liars. It will search (correctly) where the likes of Lisa lust , Gorry, Rosie Connolly etc source their stock. It will never be a page that sets out to bully any one account, influencer or business. It’s not cancel culture. People will be offered a chance to respond to things & a chance to say sorry & fix any ‘oversights’. We are in desperate need of policing the shady behaviour but it cannot be an excuse for an anonymous page of bullying cos that makes us the trolls. I’ll be looking for everyone’s support with the page once I set it up.
 
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Mary Mary

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Thread title - Luke is a big brother but I’m not the mother, Keith get out your little udder I need another.
 
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Beach30

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She’s the image of Jennifer Lopez in her latest reel
Don't be fooled by the rocks that I got
I'm still, I'm still Sayrah from the block
Used to weigh a little, now I weigh a lot
No matter where I go, I know where the baby came from (from Scotland)
 
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ahtisyourself

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I’m still laughing at Keet saying you’re like Abby Clancy and I’m Peter Crouch. More like Flabby Clancy and Teeter Couch
 
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Thechubbymoaner

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Hello lovely people, I want to thank you all for keeping me entertained while I wait in the airport to go back to the UK and then to Ireland.

A bit of a weird and unorthodox way of doing things and fuck it , what is?

My beautiful sister went to heaven today, we knew it was going to happen but didn't expect it so soon. I just thought I'd share it as I'd told you all she had been sick. Not doing a burp on it xx
 
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Mod edit Please just drop a heart, don't quote to say a few words as it takes the thread offtopic.

If people want to talk offtopic then it's better in a chat thread or advice.

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My bestie's , mum is a life coach You need to do a 6 month course not that expensive and you get a certification when done. Heaven help us all If Burps becomes a life coach no hope for the rest of us. .............................. On a personal note. I don't know why I'm telling ye and it's not for sympathy but sometimes it's easier to say things on line then to actually speak then.
Because of my history with miscarriage and still births I'm on the " at risk category "
I am 30 weeks pregnant and was told yesterday there's no heart beat. To say we are devastated would be an understatement. My husband and I have decided that we will wait to deliver as near to delivery date as permissable. ( Which would be 32 weeks for me ) It will also be a home birth.again our choice as I can't and don't want a hospital birth again. Also yesterday my poor husband took our daughter to an appointment we'd waited 2 years for and she has to be fitted for a wheel chair. Our whole world has come crashing down in the space of 30 hrs. we are trying to keep things as normal as possible for our little girl parents and siblings.going now as the tears are starting definitely won't be crying into my phone on Instagram. If anyone hears from Brandambassador let me know here please and wish her all the best from me. I'll be back in a few weeks. X


Morning thank you all for support. Ye really are a great bunch xx didn't mean to derail chat yesterday. I was at my lowest and needed to vent. . drive it on with burps. Thanks again for all the love 💖
 
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