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For rice I get a pack. Cut the top off. Put it in the microwave

InstaFamousDoesntCount said:

Isla’s behaviour is shocking!
Can’t stay mad at her because she’s cute? Lil is seeing something very different to what we are being shown

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So her feral and naughty kid was downstairs while she lazed about upstairs, had time to climb up, steal, open and fully eat a massive bar of chocolate from a very high cupboard? She could have fallen off the work surface and cracked her head open or broken her bloody legs and I’m sure this has taken her a good chunk of time. Knowing how bad her behaviour is why is she being left for any length of time? No doubt Lil is relying on Abbie to parent her because she can’t be arsed.

Then rather than discipline her for stealing, ruining an afternoon activity for her and her sister and just generally being a mischievious little shit she’s HIDING from her in a cupboard with a coffee talking to strangers online because she can’t phone her husband to moan.

Lil, Keiran is out providing for you and the girls. YOU HAVE ONE JOB: PARENT. How can you continuously fuck this up you lazy stupid arsehole.

Elizabethwakefield said:

What is going on with her Mums teeth

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that’s mean. This is a thread for lily. Let’s not rip apart an innocent nan who hasn’t asked to be online.

TJ90 said:

So, let me get this straight - is it a two bedroom house? Where are they planning on putting this baby when it’s old enough for its own room?

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Theyre not planning. Lil will just go for a bath and hope for the best.

I got 99 problems but pesto ain’t one

A fiance recovering from addiction, 2 children she cant cope with, a puppy and a baby on the way

She seems settled and content and they’ve obviously talked it through (as you would expect) and have plans for the future.

I know she moans and does ads and her youngest is a little... wild. But I do like Lil. Much much more than any of the other Insta mums or “influencers”. She has an actual talent and passion (cooking) unlike the rest.

Mememe9 said:

They could take 3 weeks to make for me and I still wouldn’t be paying £14 for them. You’re as mental as she is

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I had a mental breakdown three years ago after many traumatic life events and I’m still on medication to this day, so yes, maybe I am ‘mental’ as you say. But I don’t think my poor mental health is the reason I bought a biscuit gift.

I have zero sympathy whatsoever. My dads an alcoholic (functioning and successful) and my mums used it as an excuse her whole life - also think she has undiagnosed borderline personality disorder but that’s a different story. Grew up walking on eggshells never knowing what mood either of them would be in, my childhood was full of high highs and then days me and my siblings would be scared to even speak or terrified of making a tiny mistake like tipping a glass over.

I have absolutely no compassion or tolerance for parents who can’t sort their own shit out and will live in these cycles of harm that they inflict on their children. If she’s that fucking miserable that she’s crying to STRANGERS ON THE INTERNET she needs to sort her fucking life out. We all have choices to make in life.

She’s on one today eh? Funny how she’ll tell us to use our time more wisely. Well Lil you fucking knobhead here’s how my day went yesterday:

Got up and showered myself at 7am (no long soaks in the bath for me!), learned Spanish with my kid, did arts and crafts, movie time for the kid while I did my day job, made a pot of soup from scratch for lunch, worked some more while my hubby taught maths, went an hour long walk, dropped shopping to my family, made a home made family dinner and did the bath and bed routine. Found time to have a rant about you and a few others who are lazy bastards without any sort of job and haven’t even done half of that so you can fuck clean off.

Did you see on Lil’s stories that Kieran is doing coaching, after his own experience with therapy. I thought that was great, it’ll also keep him focused on his recovery etc. We tend to be a fan of Big K on here so thought it was worth a mention.

Peachylite said:

I’m sure her parents have jobs too, so they will know the risks. I don’t understand when people split the whole ‘if you love your parents you wouldn’t be seeing them’ how about I love my parents and want to see them, we need to see people for everyone’s mental health. It’s not normal to be cut off from so many people for so long and yet we are accepting it because the government tell us we should

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Couldn’t love this comment anymore! Saw something the other day that said “if you’re not seeing your family this Christmas Cos Boris said you can’t but you’re still going to work everyday Cos Boris said you can, you’re a tw*t”.

Sick of tattle being full of the covid police. I have seen my family this Christmas because it may be some peoples last Christmas. Not having the government telling me I can go to work every day mixing with tons of households, go to Asda everyday, my nephew mix with 60 households at school every single day but I can’t see my mom and dad on Christmas Day? No thank you, next, do whatever you feel is right for your mental health and don’t let anyone make you feel bad for it.

amberger0204 said:

To be fair I don’t think I’d trust my recovering alcoholic partner to go do our food shop either

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This is incredibly ignorant.

“A small amount of the time” catch yourself on Lils! You have a different beauty treatment, shopping trip, weekend away every week! Stop acting the victim. And if social media is so bad PUT YOUR PHONE AWAY AND GET A JOB!

I get the chat about depression all too well, but equally she enrages me because she does absolutely nothing to improve her situation she just continues to moan.

Could she give her kids more structure and routine that would help her to feel less stressed? Yes.

Could she go to work even part time to give her a sense of routine and purpose? Also yes.

Could they as a family make different choices that cause less stress on the household? Yes.

Could she spend less money on all those luxury things and weekends away to stop her worrying about their household finances? Yes.

I get that depression is an illness but she’s a grown adult with a huge amount of privilege… the woman has a therapist, PT and eating coach ffs and yet she still doesn’t address fundamental things that could help her feel better in herself and create a happier household. At some point she needs to recognise that she has the power to make her life feel different and can make changes that will reduce her stress and in turn her families stress.

It’s just honestly ridiculous for her to be on stories crying about money then fucking off on holiday swinging her designer handbags about and then moaning about the kids and not even putting pants on them or getting them to school on time when SHE IS THE FUCKING PARENT. She chose three kids when she was already struggling with two. Honestly man, depression or not she is choosing the life she’s living and it’s fucking exhausting listening to her whine about it.