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Eimear, we know you read here, so let me educate you, in very clear, easy to understand sentences.

When you post a photo of a (distraught) woman taken without her permission, you are part of her abuse.

No amount of pretending that you are doing it to help her or empower her or “free” her or educate anyone else makes it better or right.

You are guilty of monetising another persons grief and despair to your own benefit. This makes you a horrific part of the problem.

You will not take that post down from your permanent grid because it’s gotten over 200 comments - when your usual engagement is about 2-3 comments. You are using Britney as much as anyone else in her life ever has.

You are not smart or clever enough - nor do you have any sense of empathy to be able to engage in these issues. You need to stop. Your narcissism is showing.

Take a breath. Back away from anything that may allow you to have a performative sense of empathy and kindness. Here’s a short list and not exclusive: mother and baby homes, sexual assault, food poverty, joblessness, Covid.

If you want to develop this hugely lacking part of your damaged personality, choose one thing. Read. Educate YOURSELF. Ask questions (of experts). Take yourself OUT of the equation (no “I’m bawling” “Obsessed” etc). And then consider a post - in which you give maybe 10% of the time and attention you give to say one of your #ad #pr posts - and talk about the situation at hand and what needs to be done to help.

Here’s a suggestion. You are an “Ambassador” for Indigo Volunteers. Spend the rest of this year just focusing on them and their issues when you want to be politically correct.

And please - for the love of God - shut the absolute f*ck up about anything else.

Hi.
So I’m the person who EVB reported today for ‘telling her to kill herself’.
She is absolutely so full of shit. I messaged her about the covid stories she put up asking if it just dissolves. Her reply was immediately aggressive and nasty. For some reason she decided tos tart throwing out random accusations that she knows who I am and that the police are building a case Against me I have to say as someone who had very little engagement with her before today I was shocked that Surrey police were so interested in me She must have someone who torments her within her own circle (I’m assuming it’s on Daniels side based on what she said) she basically told me all about what a shitty person she claims Daniel is and that I’m out to get her.

she went from zero to 100 shiteing on about how he’s an abuser etc etc etc. I threw out that there are many serious accusations against her and that it wouldn’t be advisable to slander your former partner online if it ever went to court. She blocked me, deleted the conversation. Then she messaged me from beour to start the conversation up again. Told her numerous times to stop messaging me.
I contacted Surrey police myself and they were so lovely and said not to pass any heed on her. I have a case number for my call and hope that’s the end of it.

She is one vile person and I hope people see the truth about her.

Influenced said:

Can I request she just gets a #4 thread. No funny names, she doesn't deserve our wit.

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EVB #4 Undeserving of wit, full of #AF & Covid Bullshit

I can take people making mistakes, as long as they take responsibility. And in my real life, when I make a mistake or my family / friends make mistakes, we own the problem, talk about it and move forward.

But the whole thing about the “influencer” culture is that these people talk to us as if they are our friends ... they chat away and they show us (edited) parts of their lives - and they basically monetise s. They could not give a flup about us as other human beings. They take advantage of our boredom or lack of connection or loneliness ... and they use the numbers to enhance their lives, monetarily.

But then, they expose themselves - and it all starts to seep through the carefully curated life of fuzzy filters and fugly kitchen renos and half naked children and handsome partners who they constantly break up with and animals they buy from breeders all the while pretending to be conscious about animal rights and veganism and fast clothing and homeware they flog for affiliate links and ambassadorships for refugees while being racist as fuck about gypsies ... They are exposed.

And we - as their audience - call them on it. Because we think we have a stake and a relationship and we think we are important and valid. And because their hypocrisy is a bitter taste and their smugness feels vile.

And then they cry and go to the police and ban and erase and lie and scrabble because their true selves - the greedy, grasping, lying, don’t give a fuck, ugly, chaotic, mean - self... it’s shining through for all to see. And they insist that we - their audience - their money - their livelihood - have no right! Have no right to speak about them, or judge.

Eimear Variant Barry

Sorry now but she got caught out in her attention seeking behaviour and is now crying wolf, as usual. This is her MO. She literally keeps doing this. Rinse and repeat. She is a narcissist who sells her children online for the sake of a career and is literally only back online to keep paying the bills. She shares extremely intimate details of her relationship and yet has the audacity to complain about people taking an interest in the shite she is trying to sell the same people. She is no different to a reality TV persona, she makes money from the mugs who follow her. If you are under any illusion she has had some sort of breakthrough in the last few days you are as delusional as she is.

Also queue an ad in 5,4,3,2,1.....

She is so full of shit. How long have we known about the mother and baby homes..and this report - we just didn't have it to read. I hate how she makes Ireland out to be this backwards places.
We voted to legalise abortion Eimear in case you didn't know. Mass going Catholics voted for it too, just because you're Catholic doesn't mean you're backwards. (I'm raised Catholic but don't go to mass often and don't agree with teachings)

Eimear only claims Ireland when she wants and that's not okay. As Irish people we need to own the negatives as well as the positives of our home. When we own the negatives it encourages conversation and we grow, we learn from mistakes of the past and we create a better country. I live abroad and I love Ireland but I never shy away from informing people of the terrible secrets of our past.

Really wanted to message her and say more research went into the vaccine than goes into lip fillers and you still get those but I don’t want to send her over the edge altogether

And it's very possible every last bit of it is true. People are regularly saying here how much she's gone off the rails over the years. She says on her Instagram that her partner has been breaking her down. Why can't we just believer her? People fight for sure, but if my partner called me that... I wouldn't give a damn who knew. The only one who should be embarrassed is Daniel.

I find it so interesting that EVB thinks that Tattle bullies her and depersonalises her - because people are finding a space to comment and discuss. Most of the conversation here is pretty mild - and people often express their wish that she finds her way back to herself.

But she then thinks (and pushes back when people call her on it) that she can publish exceedingly personal, triggering and intrusive images of another woman - at their lowest point. For educational purposes and to be part of a “movement”. Because she has an inflated sense of her own importance - and because she thinks that this story is not “just about Britney”. So Britney’s private grief can be exposed for the world to see - without her permission - to educate about misogyny, post partum depression, mental health, etc etc. But EVB isn’t a bully or abusive or inappropriate. She’s like the NYTimes!

Fucking hypocrite.

Looovvveeeee the vaccine skepticism juxtaposed with the excitement to get an injection of ??? into her lips

Maybe Eimear’s “friend” can screenshot this- if your post on hateful comments that you claim were directed towards you generates many more comments than your usual posts, what does that say about your general content? I have never seen comments like this there. Why not show screen shots of the actual comments ? The reason that forums like this are so popular is because people like you who use social media to make money FROM PEOPLE LIKE US do not show accountability. You have demonstrated that you are not open to honest feedback and will block followers and remove comments you do not like. For all of your pseudo Irish charm easygoing g’wan girl craic persona you like to perpetuate, you have shown an unsuitability to this type of “work”. I have said on here before that the intro of stories on Insta has done you no favours. Your grid used to be good. Just photos. Your stories have been very erratic and overly personal and you appear to be searching wildly for something that will up engagement but you just never seem to hit the mark, much less consistently. So what do you do? Post to gain sympathy while never taking ownership of any criticism. In the same way that Insta is a forum that allows “Jack of all trades, master of none” like you to make money, Tattle allows people like me (and Cranky Pants) to hold those to some kind of accountability.

The close up of the lashes this morning wouldnt inspire ya to go get benefit mascara at all - anyone else think this?

Shes the biggest liar on Instagram... you were not bullied in school rather you were the bully you were the ring leader of the mean girls pack, that was you, you were a horrible bitch who sneered and made fun of people and thought you were above everybody else. I saw that as somebody who was in that group with you and am now actually ashamed of my actions but I was young and I matured and grew out of it into a decent person, you are worse and still as attention seeking as ever at 34 as you put it! You would never have been laughed at for your violin because we had a big music department lots of people played instruments and sung it was cool and that shit about period stained pad there were no boys in the school so how were you chatting with them on your lunch break and it was a strict school that wouldn’t have been tolerated and if anyone was to be doing things like that to people it would have been you and as for the comment about your mum I’m not even going there other than to say shame on you

Imagine lying in bed with your kids, kids who've you've not seen for a while and who you've missed. Now imagine lying with them in bed, holding your camera aloft, checking the angles, the lighting, the reach etc etc. Taking a photo, checking it, taking another one and another. Choosing a good one and posting online. Ffs if you missed them that much stop fannying around for content and just spend time with them. They are not content, they are not internet fodder, not news, not props. They are small humans who are sleeping.

May be I’m weird but the “sex chat” is the most banal boring un-sexy exchange EVER. Watching paint drying is more arousing. Basically it consists of fake messages saying how turned on they are (about nothing at all) and how much sex they’re having and how they’re now pregnant as a result. Can someone just call bullshit?

What have I said that's heartless? What did I wish on her?

I said basically she said all this before and nothing changed, if she takes her kids off insta for good then good for her but I said if she doesn't then nothing she said makes sense. If she was so petrified of insta why share your kids and share your life? If I was petrified of something i
Shield my kids from it as much as I possible my could, so yes she is a hypocrocrite as she said all this before.

she said a whole lot of nothing in that message...

And no I don't follow her for all of the above reasons and haven't for a long time since she started showing her kids after her last "terrifying" experience

and what I said is nothing compared to what has been said...my head doesn't need a wobble it's fine.

Elitechick31 your have had your own opinions of past threads and other posts so I wouldnt act innocent in all this. It's an opinion based forum for ALL opinions

Eimear’s bluff was finally called. She is now gaslighting everyone in order to deflect from her mountain of lies.

concered_fiancé said:

Alot of people on here taking a moral high ground and sympathising with the Varian for use of the word cunt. Obviously I hope she isnt being abused.

However, it would be extremely interesting if that fella had an instagram account and he posted some of the stuff he puts up with. In her own words "she gives as good as she gets".

So a lot of people here drawing a line at the word cunt but who knows what type of shit she says to him, but it's only him that is being dragged through the coals.


Very sad for the children no doubt and it's better for everyone if they dont get back together.


But seriously too many people jumping to the defence of the Varian. She's getting all the sympathy and attention she craves, especially after the bad press with Air BnB and covid spreading etc

Lastly, could be seriously hurting his employment prospects over a verbal argument. Especially now that super fans will be on his case.

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I would agree with this wholeheartedly. I am VERY uncomfortable when she keeps going on about being the primary breadwinner in the household. I remember many years ago talking to a male friend of mine about how demeaning this phrase was when he spoke how he was the primary breadwinner, and about how his wife contributed nothing. Of course, that was complete crap, and his wife’s contribution to the upkeep of the house, the mental and physical wellbeing of the children etc etc was unseen and unrecognised.

You could apply the same to Eimear. Her partner contributes in many ways that seem not to be calculated when she declares herself to be of more value than him. He seems to have taken a house that was a dump site and converted it into something that is worth much more than when they first moved in. And that is an asset that will keep appreciating (despite her adoration of coloured walls). Whereas her income seems to be spent as soon as she gets it.

Who looks after the children when she’s gallivanting around Addlestone spreading Covid to the poor and the hungry? Or when she’s (ad spon pr) getting her lips filled yet again? Who takes photos of her artfully waking the (paid for) dogs with her (ad spon or gift) muddy boots?

Im not condoning name calling, but Jaysus it seem they’re both as nasty as the other. And if she speaks about him like that publicly, to tens of thousands of unknown viewers, you can imagine that privately she’s probably insufferable. Well, she’s insufferable in public as well, but you know what I mean.

I would say they’re equally abusive to each other.

What he doesn’t do though, and what she does - is use THEIR children as part of her schtick to be the “primary breadwinner”. Use their images, their bodies, their thoughts... trains them to perform for the camera. Without their permission (because at that age, they cannot give it). For any stranger to look at. Does he agree with this? Does he have the right to vet every image she uses of his children? Of their lives?

She needs to get off social media, get a job and work on her mental health.

At what stage do I start charging royalties? She’s getting so much mileage out of that grid post.