In my opinion, and unfortunately experience, Damien and this girl are both nasty tramps, him more so than her but she followed Dom and saw their life unfold, that's just mind boggling.
Before it happened to me I would have been the one standing up for the other woman, completely, but not now I've seen what these types of women can be like.
I accept some women are duped by men into believing they're single etc
If I spoke for hours about what it was like I'll never even get close. When you find out, that moment, your body tingles and shakes, your legs go from under you, at least mine did. Everything around me was gone, I couldn't hear anything. The shock was life changing.
I couldn't eat, some days I literally had to drag myself off the floor.
I told people I wouldn't normally have told anything to, you're in shock, you're vulnerable. Your whole life as you knew it is over. Forever. You will never be the same person you once were.
As the weeks go by you start to think back and you see now when they were together. While you were at home, innocently watching tv, or putting the kids to bed, he was with her.
You think of times he stood beside you when you were with your family and friends and all the time he was seeing her.
You go through the day, work, life like a zombie. When the tears come it's almost suffocating.
I was contacted by her after he had ended it, she sent me screenshots and photos. Sometimes I'll just be driving along and I'll think about it and I'll feel sick. This is five years later.
I have a great job, family, lovely friends, I travel a lot, keep fit and this brought me to my knees.
Damien is a tramp. She will flourish, believe me it's possible. The other woman is also a tramp, anyone who sticks up for her are not my people. Low self-esteem etc are not excuses to ruin lives and it does ruin lives. A family friend died by suicide after the discovery of an affair. I never contemplated it but there were days I wished I didn't exist. Today I can talk about it without feeling that pain so I've healed but it was a battle.
To all the ladies who've been through the same, I see you and you are amazing x
Before it happened to me I would have been the one standing up for the other woman, completely, but not now I've seen what these types of women can be like.
I accept some women are duped by men into believing they're single etc
If I spoke for hours about what it was like I'll never even get close. When you find out, that moment, your body tingles and shakes, your legs go from under you, at least mine did. Everything around me was gone, I couldn't hear anything. The shock was life changing.
I couldn't eat, some days I literally had to drag myself off the floor.
I told people I wouldn't normally have told anything to, you're in shock, you're vulnerable. Your whole life as you knew it is over. Forever. You will never be the same person you once were.
As the weeks go by you start to think back and you see now when they were together. While you were at home, innocently watching tv, or putting the kids to bed, he was with her.
You think of times he stood beside you when you were with your family and friends and all the time he was seeing her.
You go through the day, work, life like a zombie. When the tears come it's almost suffocating.
I was contacted by her after he had ended it, she sent me screenshots and photos. Sometimes I'll just be driving along and I'll think about it and I'll feel sick. This is five years later.
I have a great job, family, lovely friends, I travel a lot, keep fit and this brought me to my knees.
Damien is a tramp. She will flourish, believe me it's possible. The other woman is also a tramp, anyone who sticks up for her are not my people. Low self-esteem etc are not excuses to ruin lives and it does ruin lives. A family friend died by suicide after the discovery of an affair. I never contemplated it but there were days I wished I didn't exist. Today I can talk about it without feeling that pain so I've healed but it was a battle.
To all the ladies who've been through the same, I see you and you are amazing x
Mooordgirl
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Its the reality of being cheated on... not sure what your point is?96 thousand people need to know she’s getting and STI test done.
right so.
Also fbg is nobody's friend to be constantly posting about her wedding she could of down played it a bit for the sake of her best friend. What a bitch 
I lost my daughter in her first two weeks of life, I have other children before and since. She isn't walking on this earth but she is very much a part of life. We always mention her in the 'How many children' conversation, I post pics of flowers I arrange for her, her Christmas tree at her grave, her birthday and anniversary are always mentioned online and we have done fundraisers in her name
I have a friend whose daughter was stillborn, she is very private about her girl and all of her children. She only speaks of her daughter to very close friends.
We both are Honoring our babies as we feel best.
Dominique is a mammy with empty arms. If it helps her to post a reaction video and remember the innocence of Life Before then so be it. I hope she can find anything that gives her even a second of peace.
I have a friend whose daughter was stillborn, she is very private about her girl and all of her children. She only speaks of her daughter to very close friends.
We both are Honoring our babies as we feel best.
Dominique is a mammy with empty arms. If it helps her to post a reaction video and remember the innocence of Life Before then so be it. I hope she can find anything that gives her even a second of peace.
Mooordgirl
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I dont know if I'm especially cynical but i always hate when influencers do these videos, recording reactions for content, these are personal moments between friends/family, to be treasured not recorded and shared publicly.
It always feels wrong, for me, to see these moments exploited for content. It feels extra weird to me to share them given it ended up in personal tragedy.
Interested to know if people have thoughts on this? (Please dont be mean to me!)
It always feels wrong, for me, to see these moments exploited for content. It feels extra weird to me to share them given it ended up in personal tragedy.
Interested to know if people have thoughts on this? (Please dont be mean to me!)
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Byebyebooboo
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Elf on the shelf I love myself, can't wait to get married to himself
Elf on the shelf I love myself, can't wait to get married to himself
The city/country people comments that are scattered throughout all the Irish influencer threads are so so small minded. Dublin isn’t the only city in the country and everyone living outside of Dublin isn’t a simple country poitin drinking clown. “So stylish living and working in Dublin” 
half the country are working from home for nearly 2 years, how stylish can one be from their semi-d. It’s bizarre, You’d swear Dublin was New York ffs, it’s far from it 
sorry for going off topic, rant over.
half the country are working from home for nearly 2 years, how stylish can one be from their semi-d. It’s bizarre, You’d swear Dublin was New York ffs, it’s far from it sorry for going off topic, rant over.Capricorny
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Probably gonna get some stick for this from the married girlies but I'm of the age now where most people I know are getting married and the women are making it their whole personality. Have some girlies got no other aspirations in life other than to be married? It seems to equate to success? I see this in Dominique too. It's like in some women's minds they've made it in life if a man marries them? 
We all know the type. They get engaged... there's numerous posts on IG about that. Then they pick "their venue" (as if hundreds before them haven't gotten married there) and we have numerous posts about that. Then it's "I said yes to the dress!!!!" then we're onto sending out boxes to their best mates "I can't say I do without you..." then we have the Hen parties. Numerous posts about that. Then finally we reach the wedding day. Numerous posts about that for weeks. Then for the rest of our lives we've to watch throwbacks of their magical day "wish we could do this day again!"
I'm not a bit romantic so I don't understand this behaviour. I don't begrudge anyone their happiness. I just think some things are sacred and don't need to be shoved down your IG followings throat at every opportunity.
I'm not saying every married woman is like this... Just some of the ones I know...
We all know the type. They get engaged... there's numerous posts on IG about that. Then they pick "their venue" (as if hundreds before them haven't gotten married there) and we have numerous posts about that. Then it's "I said yes to the dress!!!!" then we're onto sending out boxes to their best mates "I can't say I do without you..." then we have the Hen parties. Numerous posts about that. Then finally we reach the wedding day. Numerous posts about that for weeks. Then for the rest of our lives we've to watch throwbacks of their magical day "wish we could do this day again!"
I'm not a bit romantic so I don't understand this behaviour. I don't begrudge anyone their happiness. I just think some things are sacred and don't need to be shoved down your IG followings throat at every opportunity.
I'm not saying every married woman is like this... Just some of the ones I know...
tattietail
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I don't really agree. Her relationship was private. She shared her engagement pictures, why shouldn't she? And she shared a bit about her wedding, as it was something she was excited about, but she didn't share much at all. In fact she was keeping a lot of it a secret until after the wedding. She didn't ever say much about her relationship, that was very separate as Damien didn't like to be online. She puts herself out there yes but that doesn't mean she owes us anything. Her page is mainly fashion and I don't think her aim was ever to share the ins and outs of her life. I think she was very brave to come out and do what she did today. She could have easily let people speculate for longer and just eventually say that they broke up. She is not a full time blogger like others, she has a regular job. She doesn't put everything online like others do. I really admire her and I hope she sees how much support she has.
Come here til I tell ya
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Dim and Him heading up the aisle...all tack and feathers not an ounce of style
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forgotmyacc
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But... like what did you expect ? She was on to talk about a recently diagnosed bowel condition.Did anyone listen to her podcast a few weeks back talking about her illness….. running to the toilet all the time etc…. I couldn’t eat properly for a few days after listening to itand then there was also her dull monotone voice too
My dad god bless him has suffered with chronic Chrons disease his whole adult life.
It's really hindered his life, work, relationships, social situations. Mainly from fear and embarrassment.
It might not be pleasant but its reality for thousands of people.
If someone talking about bowel diseases and getting it out there alleviates some embarrassment for anyone then I'm all for it.
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forgotmyacc
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Personally I think it's lovely that she shared it.
If the pregnancy continued and the baby was born she would of shared it.
So I feel its a lovely way to honour her baby, the baby existed, and why shouldn't she honour her angel in the same way everyone else honours theirs ?
I completely respect that everyone will have different opinions on this but personally I think it's lovely.
If the pregnancy continued and the baby was born she would of shared it.
So I feel its a lovely way to honour her baby, the baby existed, and why shouldn't she honour her angel in the same way everyone else honours theirs ?
I completely respect that everyone will have different opinions on this but personally I think it's lovely.
Jellybb
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Are they the cunts with the saxophones?
Ah that's a bit of a ridiculous thing to say. If she can take the stigma away from getting an STI test then fair play to her. She didn't go in to detail. It is something that should be done after you've been cheated on but I'm sure some people still feel shame or embarrassed going96 thousand people need to know she’s getting and STI test done.
right so.
alltakennames
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I delivered my little boy sleeping at 5 months last summer and it’s something you’ll never get over. My heart breaks for her because it is not an easy journey and I know exactly how she is feeling now